Please I need your advise. Its for my twin brother but I am actually very worried for him. Since he has been single. I got married seven years ago and everyone have been teasing him on when he will get married. He has been in several relationship but none worked out.
Until this lady. This lady is nice and caring and beautiful and hard working. It was easy to see why my brother fell in love with her. She seemed like one with proper home and spiritual upbringing. I met her like 8 months ago and we clicked as friends.
My brother finally proposed to her about four months ago and our people went to her folks for introduction 2 months ago. I knew this lady said her mother is a widow and her sister is divorced but I did not know any more.
However,after the introduction,more revelations have come. And these revelations are not good. We are from the same village so you can imagine that people know things about anyone.
So the revelation is that this lady’s family,any man that marries into their family will come to misfortune. That her father was warned against marrying her mother but he did not heed to the advise. He later died in an accident that he was the only victim.
Her mother has 4 girls and one boy. The boy is married with no children for almost 10 years. The eldest sister is married and divorced while one of her sisters has children for 3 different men,none married her. One of her sister is single, the other lost her husband to cancer.
This is scary. My brother was aware of all of these but he is not the type to believe in spiritual things. Of course the girl and her mother are sweet people. I have met the mother but after what we have learnt,I do not want to loose my brother if its true that this is what happens to any one who marries in their family.
My mother is hysterical. Telling my brother to call off the marriage. My father and my siblings are calling for prayers but everyone is on edge. Only my brother,he says we are being dramatic and hence he will not be stopped but will go on with the marriage with or without us.
Could my brother be charmed that he is not bothered by all these? This lady,my brother’s fiancee spoke to me,saying she knows what people have said about her family. That its not true and even if its true,she is a born again christian and she will break that bond. I told her what if she is the one,will she advise her brother to go on..she replied..its the man’s choice at the end of the day.
She is right..its my brother’s choice…my fear is…I hope he is making that choice under clear eyes…or are we being dramatic….do we just pray and hope my brother marrying her will be different from her other family members experiences?
Please advise me…
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