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My Boyfriend Wanted To Meet My Parents But Something Is Wrong

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Good evening,

I would love to have some advice about my relationship.

I met my boyfriend last month. After a week or thereabout, he said he wants me to tell my parents about about us and his intentions of getting married to me, which I did after 2 weeks.

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Since I came back home towards ending of last month due to the lock down, he barely calls or chat with me, though he’s always online. I called to ask why he said that it doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love me.

Now am thinking that he’s no longer interested in me ’cause there’s a girl I found out that has been close to him before we met. I’m struggling to forget about him and move though he still claims he’s with me.

What should I do please?

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My Boyfriend Wanted To Meet My Parents But Something Is Wrong
Jzhane
A passionate people and godly relationship advocate!...Trained Psychologist and Human Resources Practioner. A seasoned Marriage and relationship counsellor. A mother, wife, sister, friend and daughter. J

18 COMMENTS

  1. Good evening ma
    Don’t you think it’s too early ?
    You guys just met last month and you barely know him, seeing your parents is not a ticket to marriage or love, most people use that to trap ladies, my candid advice is For you to move on and as for the feelings you will get over it don’t border yourself. Before you enter any relationship always seek For God’s help through prayer He will reveal to you if he’s the one. God bless

  2. Good evening,
    Have you told your parents about him ? If yes, then let him know your parents knows about the relationship and it is important he lets you know if he is still interested or there’s someone else he is going out with ? Find out is there’s something bothering him and if he’ll like to discuss it with you ? Do you know any of his friends or family members or do they know about your relationship too ?

    • Hello,
      You don’t really know this guy at all, just take your time to study him to know his intension.
      On the other hand I don’t think this guy is a serious type.

      All the best.

  3. Good evening,
    Have you told your parents about him ? If yes, then let him know your parents knows about the relationship and it is important he lets you know if he is still interested or there’s someone else he is going out with ? Find out is there’s something bothering him and if he’ll like to discuss it with you ? Do you know any of his friends or family members or do they know about your relationship too ?

  4. You met a guy today, tomorrow he said he wants to marry you. Naso them dey marry? Naso love be? My dear that guy wants to tie you down because he sees you are desperate to get married. He will use and dump you.

  5. Hello,

    This is what happened. He met you last month..you looked so desperate for marriage so he told you he wanted to meet your folks…

    And he then dumped you.

    Of course,he is no longer interested in you. You expected too much from him. Its time to move on.

    The next guy that comes around you…please do not be too desperate about getting married. Try being normal friends for some time and get to know them and let them respect you well eneough before any talks of marriage come up.

    You need to work on yourself. You need to stop stressing.

    Cheers

  6. I guess you don’t know that’s the new code guys used for ladies planning to settle down. They will promised you marriage and then after having some round of s*x with you, they decide to move on. And funny thing is that, most of them are not courageous to end the relationship directly by asking for breakup. They will start giving you space, till that frustrate you and make you to ask for breakup.

    So my dear, if he stops bothering to call or chat with you, he is trying to move on. Don’t let expectations kill you. I know you might be feeling too desperate to make things work because you told your parents about him but since they have never met him, there’s nothing to be scared/ashamed of. You should only be ashamed of yourself if you let this guy to keep playing you.

    I’m sure if there wasn’t a lockdown and you guys were still meeting everyday, he won’t be ignoring you because he will want more of your physical presence. But since you are far away, he doesn’t need you for now. That’s why he is not asking for breakup but holding you down with the sentence “it doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you”.
    So that you can wait patiently for him, by not disturbing him till you guys start meeting again, and then he start receiving the old benefits with your physical presence.
    Back out now before it’s too late.

    It is well !!!

  7. Hello
    You should thank God that this happened early
    Please don’t stress yourself over it just move on
    Next time you should study and know the person very well before mentioning it to your parents
    Stop being desperate and pray for God’s time is the best
    Do not force yourself into that relationship cause the end result is disappointment
    Take care

  8. Many men are in trouble with women because the y neglect the first thing to know= the art, psychology and science of woo-man-hood. If you understand the woo power of a woman a man will understand everything else about the eooman. Most men discover women in the middle of the journey instead of in the beginning
    . This is where the problem lies. Before u say I do, discover yourself and discover who a woo-man is

  9. This marriage of a thing is taking a big toll on we ladies! Let the guy be! Most men wants where to ease their s*xual tension down and if they don’t get it, they go, it’s only few that come with/in peace!

  10. Girl He is playing you like a violin. This is exactly the same strategy my in-Law uses on EVERY SINGLE GIRL he dates. Meet her family and even spends special holidays with them. The girls will be so excited and planning the wedding already. My in-Law even goes as far as buying the girls an “engagement ring”.
    6 months LATEST after meeting the girl he will create a situation and build on it till the girl leaves of her own accord.
    The last girl lastet over 1 year but that is because she had low-self esteem.
    The last girl even was told by my in-law’s mother to leave her son because of the abuse he was putting her through. She refused. In her mind: he will change and they will get married. She even moved out of her flat that was close to her work place to move in with my in-law who lives 2 hours away from her work place.
    In short: girl forgot about him. He is NOT serious about you. He is NOT planning on marrying you. You are NOT the ONLY girl he is sleeping with and who’s family he has introduced himself to.
    Marriage is not the fairytale women believe it is. It’s extremely hard work. Focuse on YOU for as long as you can. Don’t rush into it. And don’t let anyone make feel as if you HAVE TO GET MARRIED because they are not going to be in the house with you.find someone who no matter what will put you on top of EVERY LIST.

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