I need your advice. I want to remain anonymous. I met someone recently. He said he is a prophet and wanted to date me but I was reluctant because my first relationship was with someone like him,someone who called himself a prophet and he ended up breaking up with me even after though he was my first.
I tried to forget him but he did not give up. He kept coming for me,he was persistent. He was very caring,always asking me if I had eaten,how was my day,if I had a headache,he would show so much care and love. He seemed genuinely interested in my progress,even my business.I unintentionally began to fall for him.
And truly,he showed me love that I have not experienced before. For the first time,I began to believe in true love. I was happy until he said something: he said that he has alot of spiritual children. Meaning that: he has young men and women who he takes as his spiritual children,maybe to mentor them.
I wondered why he was telling me. So,I said I am fine with it as long as it does not affect our relationship. He promised me that it would never. Until one day,he told me one of his spiritual daughters wants to come and stay with him. I was surprised because he lives in a one room apartment.
I questioned him as to why he would allow such a thing to happen. This girl is an adult. How would she be staying with you. Why would her mother even allow her to stay with you? how will she be changing in the room when you are there? All these questions I asked him,he just replied: are you done? He did not say anything more.
I figured he was upset so I apologized. He was angry and said I did not trust him and if I cannot trust him then there was no need for us to be dating. I apologized and that was it. later on,I found out that this girl moved in and also moved in with her boyfriend. That made me relax a bit because I thought with her boyfriend in the same room with my own boyfriend,nothing could happen.
Later on,I found out that this girl got pregnant for her boyfriend. What shocked me was that my own boyfriend was very angry with her for getting pregnant. I asked him what was his business and he told me he was mentoring her and had good plans for her,that the pregnancy disappointed him.
I was numb. I did not know how to react cos the other time I reacted,he said I did not trust him. So,I kept my cool. A few days ago,I called him to let him know I would be coming over to spend like 2 days with him. I closed from my shop and went to see him. When I got there,I did not meet him,only the girl was there and she refused to let me in.
I called my boyfriend and he did not pick up but I noticed the light of a phone come up in the room when it rang. I called several times no response. Then the girl told me he is not around and will not be back tonight. I told her I would wait even if its for 2 days.
I stayed outside until I realized how late it was,I was afraid of getting attacked outside especially in the corona virus period. I left to my place. When I got home,I saw my boyfriend’s missed calls. I called him back and I asked him where he was knowing I was coming to his place. He said he went out.
Out of anger,I told him he was lying cos I was at his place and I suspect him cos I saw his phone light up when I called. He started insulting me and told me it was over. That I do not trust him. Ma,its been two days,I have been sending him messages and no response since then.
I miss him so much. I love him so much. Maybe my insecurities are making me mistrust him. What do I do? I am going to be 36 years old soon. I am lonely with no one to talk to. I miss all the love he showed me. What do I do? Is he playing me or am I the one with issues?
Please advise me. I feel so sad and hurt. What do I do?
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