Please help me post this. I want to know if I am wrong for taking a decision to break of my engagement. My fiancee and I have been together for almost 2 years. I love her and I always wanted her to be my wife.
I was working a a good paying job but I had to leave cos of some politics. Where I am now,I do not earn as much as before,my plan was to find another job before this pandemic started. That did not stop me from keeping my promise to get married to my girl cos she has been wondering where our relationship is heading to.
I proposed to her in March,hoping to start introduction around May and do everything like traditional marriage and white wedding before the end of the year. My girl knows my financial situation cos I told her that we may have to cut down on spending big on wedding and other things if we are getting married this year.
I proposed to her with a ring and she was happy but I noticed she hardly wears the ring. Her response was:ah,the ring itches her cos its not gold. That he skin reacts to anything that is not gold. I told her to manage,I will change the ring when I receive my next salary.
Two weeks ago,my girl had a misunderstanding with her friend and they were not speaking to each other. I don’t know what led to their issue but I decided to stay away from it cos I am sure its just girls issue. But her friend sent me a screenshot of their conversation where my fiancee was talking bad about me.
This girl sent that screenshot out of anger or whatever but what surprised me was that my fiancee would bad mouth me to her friends. Some one I want to marry? She said to her that I am wretched and she does not know what she is doing with me. That I could not even afford a simple gold engagement ring when she was expecting a diamond ring. That she would never wear the ring.
The screenshot showed other bad things but what got to me was that my girl actually embarrassed me for getting her an engagement ring that is not gold. I been thinking,is this the type of woman I really want to marry? Of course,she started begging when I showed her the screenshots.
She said she did not mean those words,she was only bragging to her friend cos she didn’t want people to mock her for accepting a simple ring from me. I feel betrayed and frankly speaking,my heart seems not to be in this relationship anymore even though I still love her.
I want to call it off..please advise me..should I call it off or forgive her? Is she a gold digger fiancee? Is she this materialistic? Is this a redflag.
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