Please hide my identity. I know many people might shame me for the story am about to share. That is why I have been keeping quiet about it for so long. But I cannot keep quiet anymore. The success of my relationship depends largely on this.
My Step sister’s husband sent me a racy video last year. He immediately called me and said it was a mistake. He said someone hacked his phone and sent p*rn to his contact. He begged me not to tell my sister and to compensate me,he sent me 30k.
That was how our relationship started. He would ask me to send him nudes of me. Knowing that I need the money for school,I thought it was harmless. So,he would send me his too. Sometimes he would masturbate to my nudes and send me voice notes of him pleasuring himself.
Most times,he would send between 20 & 50k for my cooperation. I am not proud of what I am doing but coming from a polygamous home like ours,it was all man for himself. At least,I was not prostituting. I also work part time to add to whatever I get from my sister’s husband.
Five months ago,we went to my sister’s husband’s village for their father’s burial. I met one of their relatives who took interest in me and has been asking me to marry him.He is cool and I like him alot. We have been dating since until my sister’s husband found out.
I discovered that he told this man that I am a bad girl and he should not marry me. Initially,I was not aware of the reason but he just stopped calling me after 2 months of professing so much love for me. I tried to call him but he didnt pick my call. Along the line,I told my sister to help me find out why the guy lost interest in me.
It was my sister who later told me that the guy said he found out that I sleep with married men for money. I was like:that is a lie. I knew where it was coming from:my sister’s husband of course. I was enraged. I confronted him but he denied it and said he never said anything of such.
I have tried all to prove to this gut that I am not what he heard about me but he wont listen. Now,I feel like exposing my sister’s husband for destroying my relationship. I only sent nudes to him,I never slept with him. I told him to tell the truth or I will go to his wife and show her the nudes we exchanged.
This man had the guts to tell me to go to hell. I feel hurt cos I am loosing a good man for something I never did. I know if I tell my sister,there will be trouble in her marriage ,my sister will be disappointed in me but I also feel I should clear my name from this accusation of sleeping with married men.
I have never slept with any married man in my life before,I have only sent nudes to my sister’s husband and I did that for the money which I badly needed to further my ND course. How is what my sister’s husband did ok…why cant I be allowed my own happiness?I do not want to loose this man who promised to marry me cos he also said he will take care of my studies.
Please advise me:how do I handle this situation?
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