My Feelings Are Stuck With Two Men -Please Help My Confusion
My name is Angela (not real name) I am 28 year old, I am a civil servant here in Asaba (not real location). I am in a relationship with a guy in my place before I got work here. The guy really love me show all manner of care for me.
This same guy is a believer,all the moment we spent together ,the guy didn’t touch me. The problem though is that I do not have feelings for him. No matter how much I try to show him the same feelings he has for me . I have always found it difficult to love him like he loves me.
Recently, I met a another guy. He is ok. He works in the Bank. The problem with this guy is that he does not care like the first guy.He has never invited me to his house. So I can know where he lives. He says he is staying wit his uncle.
He said that his uncle wife may not allow him to bring a woman come to their house because of her ex girlfriend that travelled out the country. That the Uncle’s wife really love the ex girlfriend. That they were always gisting with her anything dat happened in their family.
However this guy told me that,he cannot marry his ex because he does not want any woman that would be controlling him. He said he wants me to be patient with him to get his own apartment. And that is the excuse he has been giving me for the past one years now. That is his only excuse.
Ma, He always come to my place anytime that we want to see, and he goes back. Most times,his phone is always on silent when he is with me. We have fought about this attitude of his many times. He said he is used to keeping his phone on silent.
The first guy,despite my attitude towards him (showing him I don’t love him as much as he does) he didn’t change. He still shows care to me. Now I am confused ma. He just got a job in March this year. And he is asking me to come down to his place so dat we can put things in other.
He is the only one dat use to tell me about marriage. The second guy has not said anything about marriage since we been together. I need your advise. Though first time i went to pray about d first guy,they said he is ok for me. I also went to pray about the second guy,they also Said he was ok. I do not know what to do ma.
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