My Husband & My Brother Are Clashing
I am in need of advise. I really do not want to assume problem where there is none. I have been married to my husband for 9 years now. Up until now,everything has been fine in our marriage. I have never had a reason to doubt my husband’s faithfulness.
Well,until my younger brother came to live with us last year. He was posted to Ibadan for his youth service and he moved in with us. We have a boys quarters,so it was not a problem for us at all. The only issue I had was that I noticed he would bring different girls to his room and I used to shout at him but he is an adult,what else can I do….
Until one day, I started to notice that my brother and my husband were becoming aggressive towards each other. Of course,I would never support my brother disrespecting my husband so I warned him to behave himself or move out.
Meanwhile,my husband was already saying he wants my brother to leave because he was being mad disrespectful to him. I called my brother and queried him on his behavior. All he said was: go and ask your husband what really happened.
I became angry that he would not tell me why he was disrespecting my husband and I threatened send him packing. That was when he said that he discovered that my husband was going after one of the ladies who brought to the house a couple of weeks ago.
He said the lady broke up with him and he found out that it was because my husband gave her money and he suspects my husband is cheating with the lady. That made my brother very upset with hubby. This information was a shock to me. I asked my brother several times if he was sure,he was like I should ask my husband na.
Well, I asked my husband and he denied it flat. Saying he does not know what my brother is talking about. To verify the truth,I called the girl’s number but discovered her number has not been going through for days now. I am confused. Hubby has denied flat the allegation but my brother insists that hubby is a cheat and stole his girlfriend.
I am quite perplexed. I want to believe my husband because my brother has no real proof but then,he is my brother..why will he lie to me? My husband is now angry that I am believing my brother over him…he has not been talking to me for almost 3 days.
Should I go and beg him? But what if he actually did chase that girl? How can I be sure of who is telling the truth? Meanwhile,hubby is insisting brother must leave the house…who do I believe? what do I do now?
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