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My Wife Is The Biggest Embarrassment Of My Life- She Has To Leave My House

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My Wife  Is The Biggest Embarrassment Of My Life- She Has To Leave My House

Good evening ma,

My wife and I just got into a very heated argument right now and I need your advise. What happened was that as I left for work this morning, I gave my neighbor’s wife a lift to work . I met her on the street with an umbrella. She was going to work and it raining slightly.

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Throughout today, my phone was blasting with calls from my wife. I picked initially thinking she had something important to tell me but immediately she started shouting on the phone. That why did I give the woman a lift in my car. She started questioning that since when did I start talking to the woman…bla bla bla

First ,I was like…how did you know I gave her  lift….and what is wrong with giving a neighbor’s wife a lift to work when she was going my way? I ended the call telling my wife that I was busy and would speak to her when I get home.

But my wife kept calling and calling. I became angry. I did not answer. Soon, as I got home, from the door…she said we need to talk. That now, I have joined the men that are sleeping with the compound slut. That every man in the compound has slept with that our neighbor‘s wife and now its my turn.

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First, I never knew this woman was sleeping with other men in our yard. But that is not enough for my wife to assume me too was sleeping with her. My wife showed me chats from two women from our yard that told her that her husband is this woman’s latest catch.

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That made me angrier. That my wife was gossiping with other women in the yard. I told her she was belittling herself by talking to these women. But my wife just went on and on. I told her I did not want to continue the conversation with her because she was acting very childish and annoying.

Next thing I heard was commotion in the compound. My wife went to this woman’s apartment and was shouting at her to leave her husband alone. Called her all manner of names and this woman was ready to fight my wife if not for people holding her.

I am seriously boiling and I feel like asking my wife to leave my house before my anger drives me to lift my hand and give her the beating of her life. I have sworn never to beat my wife but if this is how she thinks, I am not sure if I can keep that promise.

Our marriage is just 2 years old, no child yet and this is the first time something this crazy is happening like this. But this is too extreme and embarrassing. Even if the woman is a slut…did she catch me with her?

Truly, I did not expect this from my wife…please tell me what to do cos I truly feel like sending her packing for disgracing me in the entire yard…now, the woman’s husband will think am among the men that have f**ked his wife.

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My Wife Is The Biggest Embarrassment Of My Life- She Has To Leave My House
Jzhane
A passionate people and godly relationship advocate!...Trained Psychologist and Human Resources Practioner. A seasoned Marriage and relationship counsellor. A mother, wife, sister, friend and daughter. J

9 COMMENTS

  1. Just be calm and let the man in you play the role of peace. If by chance you drove her out or beat her up, it will show u have an inner intention to do the act.

    Tonight, sit her down and give her a strong sx to straight her head and bring back the trust and love she have for u.

  2. No no no dont chase her out ooo…just calm her down she loves you and doesnt want to loose you to anybody that is y she is been protective at dis point u have to act like a man and cool urself down and talk to her and let her know you love her and u arent looking at anyone else then will a calm voice let her know that she shouldn’t connect with the other neighbour because they just want to spoil her marriage..plz draw her close, hug her she needs …may God bless ur marriage with ur heart desire

  3. No matter what she does, just leave her alone, don’t talk back or beat her.wait until she is asleep, wake her up and have a heart to heart discussion with her.. Let her know you don’t have anything with that woman, and never Will. let her know you only gave the lady lift as a neighbor but you won’t do it again for her sake., tell her you love her very much,then make love to her. .I want you to know she feels insecure because she doesn’t have a child yet and is scared of loosing you.finally get her a job or trade to keep her occupied.God bless your union.

  4. Since ur wife in question didn’t HV anything doing rather than sitting down gossiping,u should try and find one nor two things for her so that she can b doing to avoid this embarrassment. And pls calm down so that u don’t carry out wrong actions plsssss.may God bless ur Union in Jesus name

  5. Dear Sir,

    I think you need to calm down. No good decision can be taken in any state of anger.

    So take a walk sir…do whatever it takes to calm down. And then when you feel relaxed…sit your wife down and have a heart to heart with her.

    First, do not blame your wife too much for her reaction. There are many factors playing out here:

    1. She knows or suspects this woman’s pedigree…a known or well gossiped ‘slut’

    2. Women sense from afar when other women are preying on their men long before the man ever realizes it and by that time, a mistake would have been made.

    3. Your wife is feeling vulnerable….maybe not having a child here is making her paranoid that some other woman might steal you from her.

    Please bear with her. She went extreme but she must have really panicked knowing what she has heard about the lady.

    So you just need to reassure her and let her know how you felt embarrassed by her actions. Talk to her lovingly…I am sure she would realize her wrong and apologize.

    Also advise her to avoid those other women who peddle gossip in the compound….they too will be happy that you and your wife are falling out…no…stand together as a untied front and ignore all those gossipers and adulterers.

    You be the bigger person and voice of reasoning in this situation.

    Your wife is not your enemy…focus on what’s important….peace in your home.

    God bless you sir.

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