Please I need a relationship advise. (Kindly pardon the errors) I recently met a single mom of two via SM based on job. We chatted and she wanted to relocate to Ibadan. I helped a bit to find a place but was not lucky. She finally got one on her own and we met and I helped in setting up the house.
After relocation and we set up the house, I bonded well with her kids and she showed signs that she in love with me too. She also seemed comfortable with the fact that I am a young man still living with his parents. Sometimes, My mum would be calling profusely to know my whereabouts, and the second day I was there, I felt she didnt like my mom calling too much.
And I tried to make her understand that it’s been long I been in a relationship. My family think I am an introvert. I havent gone out in 3 years from morning till night, that is why it would look somehow to them. Moreover they knew I was with her. Days after days, we still in communication and she even wanted me to sleep over.
I got home and my phone had issue. She dropped missed calls as messages which I was unable to reply any. She blocked me b4 I could know it. I reach out to her on my other what’s app and called till I explain.
She later told me, how caring and loving I was but I complain alot ( all I complained about was food) and that I have some certain mentalities that revolves around my parent that she feels she wants to change and maybe something can still happen. She raised my hope a bit.
I had a dream 2 days ago about her. Coz I stalk her alot, I know when she is online and would not want to disturb her to chat and she won’t chat me up either. I will go to her twitter and read her tweets and replies to people’s tweet. I discovered I was getting jealous and insecure.
She barely knows them. I know my parents. What I want is what they give to me. They don’t force is to do things. They go with our ways but give advice. I already told my momma about her. She objected initially but I made her see that I loved her. She said okay and gave advise to be careful so that I won’t regret.
But, I love her. She won’t just want to give me a chance. It’s burning me seriously whenever I can’t chat or communicate with her. I am really into her. I can’t even go to her place anymore, coz we barely talk. I won’t just want to go and sit down all day.
What do you advise me to do? Of I want her to go, I am finding bit difficult to let her go just like that. I have been emotionally attached to her.
She removed my number from her saved contact. Everything just went sour in a blink of an eye. Please help me.
Thanks for your time