My Girlfriend Is An Instagram Model But Is She Taking It Too Far?
I need your advise. My name is Salam (not real name). I am in a relationship dilemma. Last year, I met this very beautiful lady at a wedding. Very attractive and my head was truly spinning soon as I noticed her. I tried to say hello to her and get her attention but she was being overly formal.
However, as faith would have it, as I drove out of the wedding reception, I noticed she was waiting for a cab. Wow, such a pretty woman without a car. I drove close to her and offered her a ride and she hopped into my car. We exchanged pleasantries and I found out that the guy she came to the wedding actually dumped her at the wedding cos they were arguing.
Long story short, I went in for the kill and we were dating by the next week. Her name is Hawa (not real name). The most fun woman I have ever been with. She told me she was a model and also social media influencer. My first time of meeting one or dating one for that matter. She spent her time on internet all day. Well, that is how many people make money these days right?
But that was also an issue for me cos she was always chatting with many guys. All in the name of social media business. I tried to cope but she seemed so addicted to this business. I had to snoop through her phone and I was not comfortable with what I saw. I saw flirty chats of her with many guys.
Hawa even sent some semi nudes to men. She said sometimes, she sends those pictures to motivate clients to do business with her. She never shows her face though in the pictures. I was truly disappointed and I broke up with her after three months of dating. But I swear to God, I missed her so badly.
I begged her to consider to consider a change of approach to her job and she agreed. We got back together and everything was fine again. Until Hawa came to me and broke up with me by herself. She said that she had to take a job that would give her millions but it would require some explicit pictures and videos of her.
Hawa decided that her career was more important. She said I was old fashioned…I felt so bad but now, I am beginning to reconsider my stand. The photos she sends out…her face does not show…she calls it art. I mean… I get really jealous…thinking of how men see her naked body but they cannot really tell who she is cos her face is cut off.
Her IG has over 5 million followers. And she makes cool cash from what she does. Like I said…no one knows her in those pictures cos her face is not there. She provides a certain fantasy for people to view her seductive body in pictures and videos without knowing who she is in real life.
I am very much in love with her…I miss her every day. Should I accept her ….after all…no one knows what she really does. Her face is not exposed and she uses another name to disguise herself.
If you were in my shoes…what would you do?
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