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Can This Be True Love? He is Taken Responsibility Of Another Man’s Child. Am Happy, Scared & Confused!

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Can This Be True Love? He is Taken Responsibility Of Another Man’s Child. Am Happy, Scared & Confused!

 

Post for me, Please I need advice

 

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I got pregnant for a man who later denied the pregnancy, I was sent out of the house my parents were angry with me, I cried and cried, after some times my church people pleaded with my dad to let me stay in is house

 

After some months of my pregnancy I met someone who showed me what love is, he cared for me and provide my needs, my pregnancy didn’t show quick, I later told him am pregnant I was 3-4months then I taught maybe he wanted to come and play with me and go, when I told him am pregnant he didn’t call me for some days later he called me and told me that he is going to take care of the baby that I should tell everyone that he is responsible I was shock I taught he was joking, to the extent he went ahead telling is family that he has a child😲 my family members was asking me did I really tell him the truth I told him yes, he talk to my people that he is Willing to take care of me and the child, he later did somethings on my head paid my bride price and so on

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Were I need advice is that my baby is some month old now, u know him paying for my head am now is wife but am not yet staying with him due to he said he wants to arrange everything before we come maybe lastest next year

 

So now mummies I heard sleeping with a man that is not the father of ur child will affect the baby, I love my baby so much and I also love him too so I don’t no whether if by next year if I have s*x with him it’s going to affect the health of my baby, Mummies please I need advice

 

Seeing all he have been doing for me and my baby I no his plans are for good am even shock that he is doing all this for me, the worst thing is that my baby looks like him, well when I was pregnant I had s*x with him but with condom he never knew I was pregnant but I later told him, please just advice me

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Because I no it’s very hard for a man and woman to be together and not have s*x

 

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3 COMMENTS

  1. Hello sister. I didn’t get the part you said you are married to him, is it just that he has paid your brideprice but not wedding yet, its not advisable to stay in a house with a man that’s not your husband… You said that at the end of your writw up, study him well to know if he has any selfish motive, sometimes favor can be deceptive. Be strong for yourself and baby. On the issue of your child looking like him, you said you were 3-4 months pregnant when you met him, and that he used condom when you had sex…are you really sure he used condom. I don’t think he is the father since you were already pregnant when you met him, be strong for yourself and baby. I wish you all the best, make sure no man uses you as a sex object. I wish all the best sister. I am Akin.

  2. Akin, are u sure u read the story very well?
    When a man pay bride price on a woman head what else does he need to do again before wedding? Or better still, what is wedding, what is paying of dowry?

    Madam, a ma that have pay pride price is ur husband and have right over u. And I have not seen or hear in any place that when u have sex with ur husband, it will have effect on ur baby. Which tradition/culture is that?

    Pls give the man his right and entitlement.

  3. Well,I heard it’s a taboo to sleep with another man that’s not your baby’s father while a woman is pregnant but I don’t really know if it’s true…

    That man really loves you…For him to be responsible for a child that’s not his is something…Most of the guys out there would flee form such..

    Since he has paid your bride price,that makes you his wife and you have a responsible to perform being his woman… Be calm,take a step at a time…

    You will be fine…You deserve all the happiness you are getting…

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