My Boyfriend Is Giving Me Mixed Messages: Why Is He ghosting Me?
Its almost a year since we dated. I met my boyfriend through a friend and he taught me how to love . I’ve never been into a relationship before and this is my first. Everything was ok and perfect until 3 months ago.
We had a quarrel and over one month no one was talking to each other. I felt uneasy and I wasn’t at fault too so I messaged him and told him he doesn’t care about me. He later called and said he’s sick and had been thinking a lot and that he’s not after our arguments.
So I thought he needed time on his own so I will just message to see how he is doing and go my way . This thing continued and on my birthday, he didn’t even pay a visit or anything, he just posted one ugly picture of me and that’s all. I was very sad and waited patiently for him because the day wasn’t over yet.
I sent a message after my birthday how I felt and a whole lot. He then replied we should have a break and he’s not okay so we will decide later. I couldn’t bare it so I blocked him but later unblocked. I forgot about everything and posted something which he reacted.
We then got back to normal but he was ignoring me. The moment I sends him a message,he leaves online. He sometimes choose not to reply my messages. I was still there until one Sunday,I messaged him and after a reply he left online.
I left 2 messages but he never read until when he was ok and he asked me how I was doing. I was very busy and just when I was replying, I had a call and forget. I remembered but I think if he loves me he could have at least asked why I have him blue ticks but he hasn’t till yet.
All my other friends I didn’t mind because I was busy did messaged or call to find out. I think am worrying him and this was just a test to know how he loves me but i haven’t heard from him still.
He has once told me that I shouldn’t let him go and a time will come That there will be less communication and one may think the love is gone. Reading old chats gets me confuse everyday. Am confused and I don’t know if he loves me. I need advice