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Ladies Be Careful: How I Fell For A Surgeon Who Used And Dumped Me


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Ladies Be Careful: How I Fell For A Surgeon Who Used And Dumped Me


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I just want to share this story for people to be careful…. So I met this guy on Facebook 2018 we have been chatting then it got to a long time and he was always talking about marriage, but I always told him then that its too early. Let’s get to know each other but he said his parents were forcing a lady on him that he needed to bring a girl urgently so that his parents will know that he has a lady so I agreed cos he sounded serious on the line we continued chatting till December 2019 b4 I allowed him to see me I was the one that went to him…

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We planned meeting in ogugu Kogi state cos his best friend was getting married so that that I could no his friends first then we can go see his parents after then… B4 then he had already begged me that I should get pregnant for him so that his parents will not have a choice than to allow him get married to the lady of his choice so I agreed that December I was suppose to writer my last final year exams so I decided to go on Friday and return on Sunday… But the journey was not funny ooo.. B4 I forget this guy is a surgeon… We lodged that night cos the next day was the wedding he brought all kind of test their that day the one I can remember is HIV /AIDS and hypertisis b we did the test for each other I brought my blood group and genotype he did too..


I swear we had sex up to 10 times from morning till the next day… We went for the wedding he introduced me to his friend as his wife to be I was happy ehnn😥 not knowing her is evil so on Sunday we departed to our various destination we continued our loved up till the next day and his phone went off for 3 days after then I started seeing a lady picture on his status I asked who is this lady and where his her husband and why ain’t u been picking up my calls he told me I don’t have the right to no..

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So i made my research by searching for someone that has same surname with him on fb that his when I saw his wedding pictures he did his wedding 2 days after we came back from that trip hmm men😭 I cried my life out when I confronted him he insulted me and said I was forming hard to get na that he wanted me to get mad asin mad when I find out that he didn’t no I will find out so early… My people I was terribly broke cos with the excitement that I had a reliable person as a single mom the money I was having I invested it and it was the remaining one I use to do the whole trip and expenses for the wedding o didn’t want to ask for money so he won’t think I am un serious cos guys of this generation look down on ladies that ask them for money… I was broke ehnnn even the DA I wrote my last paper I no chop..

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Two weeks later I found out I was pregnant gbam sent him a text about it I went to scan and the pregnancy was real 😩 I had no choice than to go for a d&c cos na hunger go later kill me but during that d&c I swear for this guy as I was naked doing it I was cursing him just today I check my messenger and I saw this👇 what do u advice me people😭 I feel like cursing him more cos I was happy having that s*x and was expecting that baby with joy😭


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  1. Lesson learnt dust off and never repeat ……keep your body holy no man will dump you……. Repent repent repent ……please make a choice to abstain from sexual sins…..you have a great future and glory……seek for forgiveness from God and better your life…better days are waiting on you

  2. Console yourself. You need to be careful with whoever you date in future. People have met their future partners through social media, which is excellent, but also remember there are a lot of fake people online. Don’t be hasty to do foolish things like getting pregnant for someone you don’t know. He has not married you, yet you went ahead in the name of some cock and bull story.
    When someone is too pushy and compelling by all means to do something out of the normal, then you must know that there is something more to it. Don’t rush, do your research. This is your life. Take it more seriously!!!!!
    This guy is a dangerous guy.
    My sister go and pray and fast that God will reveal all that he has done to you. And God will destroy this Guy’s plans towards you. Life is spiritual.


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