My Ex Maybe The Only One That Can Change My Marriage Destiny-Pls Advise
Pls your candid advice are needed,
Matured minds only.
My ex boyfriend when I was single betrayed me and married someone else without my knowledge which I only saw their marriage invitation online. I did so much for him and even helped him with part of the money he traveled out with. That was 8 years ago, I really cried and wept my soul out and moved on. The truth is that I laid curses on him but I have forgiven him now.
He came home for Xmas with his wife and went to our house they told him I was married already so he collected address and visited me cos I was also in the village. He said he came to apologise to me with his wife for the wrong he did to me that he has gone so many places and he was told that the curses I laid on him is much and he should do something tangible for me if he will ever have a good home and bear children and enjoy long life. I prayed for him and told him I forgive him already. He left but since last week he has been calling me on phone, I gave him my number because we could become family friends. He is asking for my account number that he doesn’t like the condition of me and my husband he wants to send me money to rent a shop and I should also tell him the type of business I want to go into he will give me the money for it when I go back to my base.
That he just want to help me and my family as he wasn’t fair to me after all I did for him. I discussed this with my husband, he got angry and started twisting it that I want to collect money from my boyfriend and ruin his life. I even told him my sister called and said my ex called her and was asking her if 5 million will be enough for me and my family that he was seeking her opinion still my husband doesn’t want to understand. My husband is not doing anything he is riding okada higher purchase for someone and me and I am not doing anything, I do house work for people and they pay me 8k monthly.
I see this as God’s intervention but my husband said if I accept any help from him it will be the end of our marriage even my one daughter I have is at home, she is 4 years now but we can’t pay her fees and we live in a batcher. I am even typing with free mode. I am telling you all these so you can understand how much we are suffering. I don’t know if my husband enjoy suffering or is it wrong to accept help from the man. He is not asking me for anything even his wife is aware of all these because I spoke with her when he called even in the presence of my husband. We have nothing in secret.
I told his mother but she also didn’t help matters as she seconded what her son said. I am confused. I want good women in this forum to advice me, I am tired of suffering and that is the truth. I don’t want to tell you how my husband maltreats me which I see as frustration and believe if he has something reasonable he is doing all these will stop.
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