Is She Selfish Or I Am Overreacting
Do I really need to take it into consideration or overlook?
I observe my girl friend is very stingy and selfish. I really don’t need anything from her, I foot our bills from A – Z, I give her between 1500 to 5k as tfare, meanwhile the actual tfare from my place to hers is just 200 to and fro.
Ok the problem is some weeks ago she was at my place for some days, the 2nd day in the morning I realized my toothpaste has finished, having it in mind that I’m gonna buy another one on my way back later in the day, unfortunately I forgot to buy it despite buying stuff at the supermarket. But God so good as I was blaming myself for forgetting to buy it, she told me she has toothpaste in her bag so we used her toothpaste that morning. I kept forgetting to buy this toothpaste for the next 3 days, I had to cut the tube with knife so I can have something to brush my teeth but my girlfriend was quietly using her toothpaste alone and she will return it into her bag, she saw me tearing the tube but didnt occur to her to surrender her toothpaste until i bought mine the 5th day.
I really didn’t count it initially but I have noticed other things and it’s taking my mind back to the incidence. My girlfriend has never used her money to buy me a sachet of pure water or cheapest orange or whatever.
Another funny thing is when we are eating, sometimes she accused me of eating from her meat or taking from her drinks when i didn’t even touch it. Imagine always trying to lay claim to 3 pieces out of 4.
Do I need to pay attention to some of the little details or overlook all because of love or am I overreacting?
NB : she’s presently unemployed but never lack support from her parents and myself.
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