I Feel Devastated And Depressed! My Husband Cheating With Another Woman & Blaming Me For It
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My husband works and stays in another country. He came for holidays in Dec. 1st agitation he lied about his date of arrival in the country. 2nd I later fond a conversation in his phone with a woman after i started being suspicious that all was not well. Apparently he was with her for two days on arrival before he came home to me. I confronted him and he accused me of things that i have no idea to cover up himself.
We talked about it and I thought it was over only to catch him red handed speaking to te lady. We travelled from upcountry to the coastal where i work and stay. Things were obviously not good between us. We argued severally ove the same woman.
But itried my best to be the best wife that ican. I cooked him the best meals and avoided any confrontations with him just to give him a peaceful stay lest he say am nagging. Later he left for home on 30th to prepare to leave for the country he works. I felt within me that he was with that woman again and I don’t know if I did the most stupid thing or what i called the woman and realised that my husband was with him.
Long story short he never even apologise or called. I was so devastated and icalled my eldest sister who is married and complained the ordeal to her. She called him to ask why he did what he did and he rudely put her off that he doesn’t care. I was so stressed up to now he has never shown any remorse effort instead he blames me.
We don’t talk anymore. Yesterday his other woman told me that my husband sends her our conversation i felt so hurt. He has refused to even pay fees for our son. I feel devastated and depressed.
Please advice me.
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