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How Do I Handle My Disrespectful 12 Years Old Younger Sister?


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How Do I Handle My Disrespectful 12 Years Old Younger Sister?



Please hide my id , my younger sister of 12 years stays with me,she’s our last born ,am a nurse, waiting for nysc ,I was very sick some time ago that’s how she came , I would have sent her back after I recovered, but I noticed my mum was getting offended like I don’t want d girl to stay with me

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She’s was with my second elder sister who’s not married yet, and d two of my elder brother that came from nysc r staying with her ,my eldest sister that’s married is with my immediate younger sister , am 24 , my mum is now making it look like I don’t want to hold my younger sister, I want leave all d load for my elder ones.


Mother’s this girl is has no respect. D only thing she does is to go and come back from school with my 2 years old daughter,(Cos am learning how to sew clothes and I close by 4pm) wash plate and sweep house ,i do my cooking, I do sweep d place most time and clean and bath my baby , am not d lazy type,i usually do all d laundry, even to wash the bedspread she and my baby use is a problem ,they have their own room but most times she sleeps on d mat with reasons that if she sleeps under mosquito net I put for them,she will have cattarh.so if I tell her to wash their bed spread,she will tell me she does not sleep on it all d time


I stop washing her own ,cos she can’t even wash my baby’s pant , just keep them for me except I ask her to wash it . She now talks back at me .. my daughter spoilt my phone, that I fix with almost 20k remote and her potty chair, when I was not around, I beat my girl and and scolded my sister for allowing her spoilt d things, she ask me if she was d one that spoilt it and what do I want her to do , I got angry and slapped, because its her pattern when she does something and I shouts at her ,she will talk till whenever she likes instead to apologise

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,she stood up to fight with me


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I told she will sleep in darkness cos I usually give her d phone to use d touch at night,, she went outside and bought candle with her money without my knowledge,I told her hope she has enough money to always buy candle,she told me if I don’t give her, she will collect from their father( that’s my husband)

She bought some buns since 3 days now that has been in d fridge, I told her not buy anything outside wen I send her another thing,she told me it’s her money, what will she do with it if not to buy what she likes with it


I told her if I get angry I will use pepper and flog her( not that I meant it, just so she will fear) she told me if she don’t have hand ,will she be looking at me ?

If I cook beans, I don’t like beans but I eat it if that what is in d house cos am 6months pregnant, she will bring out rice from fridge ,warm it and eat with d beans with reasons she don’t like beans ,now if I beat her ,she will use d broom in her hand to hit me back

Even when I send her message and she takes it to d kitchen,and I ask her to bring it let me c,she will tell me if she brings it she will not take it back

And my husband keeps telling me to ignore, I want to send her back


Am tired of this girl, please advise




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  1. You better send her back,long story short. Caution your husband about that girl,you better send her packing asap

  2. I just hope ur husband hasn’t started any naughty things with that girl that is giving her so much courage. Because this her attitude is way to much, open ur eyes well oo. Send her back immediately because she will scatter or collect ur husband ooo.
    “The heart of man is desperately wicked, who can know it”


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