Is This A Red Flag? Can He Change…?
Good after Sis…please hide my I.D.
Am a lady of 24yrs old….I have been dating this guy for over a year now, I do visit him once/2wice in a week during the Covid-19/Student strikes. And he gave me his house key, bcoz he asked for my hand in marriage and I accepted…..but because am still schooling the did has not be done(Dowry).
Few months in d relationship I came to his place bcoz I was calling his phones and he was not picking, I came to his place and caught him red handed on bed with a lady….He almost ran mad seeing me, I was disappointed and wanted leaving but he refused me rather asked the other lady to leave I didn’t act, I even went as length of asking the lady her name, what she wanted eating and to feel relaxed….but my fiancee asked her to dress up and leave which she did, then he started begging calling friends to beg on his behalf that he really wants to settle down with me…
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Last year December he came and met my parents making his intentions known to them…Few days ago was his birthday, am schooling in another state and I told him am writing Exams so I visited unannounced just to surprise him and caught him red-handed again for the second time with another lady …the gift and cake I bought for him….I couldn’t help it ….
He told the girl am his woman he wants settling down with but has not paid my Dowry with the annoyance I slapped him and in the presence of the girl he slapped me back twice and I wanted leaving and immediately he started apologising……
please note the young man loves me so much, pays my bill with the little he earns, and he said he wants coming to pay my bride price next month…am confused should I go Ahead or will such still repeat in marriage? Insult is accepted I know my faults. Plz I need advice on this….
Sorry for the long post.
From: marriage Seminar extra
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