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She was the woman of my dreams, but she turned down my proposal

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She was the woman of my dreams, but she turned down my proposal

 

Good evening

Please post this for me and hide my identity! I was in a serious relationship for almost 3yrs with a lady I always think she was the woman of my dreams. I gave in my all to make the relationship work, I never hide anything from her, she knew all about me.

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I never thought of any other woman, in fact I did see her as my wife. I trusted her so much in everything even my little earn money I used to save it with her. I have never love the way I loved this lady. And I can say she also loved me. I can’t mention all the things I did to her out of love.

She was the woman of my dreams, but she turned down my proposal
She was the woman of my dreams, but she turned down my proposal

But trust she was like my daily breath that I can’t do without. So last year I told her I want to marry her, though I had no money on me then but I told her I’m praying for marital settlement and I’m convinced God will answer me soon so she should be ready for that. And as God may have it, answers came, doors were opened from different angles without me asking for it.

She was the woman of my dreams, but she turned down my proposal
She was the woman of my dreams, but she turned down my proposal

So I met her and talked to her about it that I want my wedding this year but to my greatest surprise she turned it down insisting she is not ready for marriage especially this year. But I wanted it this year so badly so I could also face other things without distraction or having a thought of marriage at heart again but she insisted and was not even afraid to loose me.

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I didn’t know what to do because I always thought she is ready for me. I felt bad and ended the relationship so I can face my life. I was broken but thank God who console me now I’m okay.

What’s your take on this friends?? Thanks

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3 COMMENTS

  1. You did well by ending things,she never liked you. God will provide a wife material with 100 yards. God bless you

  2. You see the mistake most men make is that. We are always choosing. As your statement. You told her you want to marry her, you told her you want your wedding this year. Same mistake most men make. You are always the one planning and choosing.

    You never for once sat her down to ask her what she wanted. Does she want to marry you?, what her plans are, when does she want her wedding…

    So you don’t just assume. You have to know what she herself wants also. Not just what you want. Then when things go sideways. You cry fowl… Like ladies rejecting men during public proposals I see

    It’s just like a parents planning for his child or saying what he wants the child to study without sitting the child down to ask what the child really wants. Hear him voice out his inner mind. U l

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