There’s one of my husband friend who is living together with us for 3years now , before I met my husband they living together my husband is the one paying for all bills in the house including house and feeding without his friend assistance.
my hubby is afraid of asking money for the bills , now we move into a new apartment that I and my hubby just rented, his friend also move in with us besides we only made half payment for which will be complete at this month end by Gods Grace , my hubby and his friend working in the same company, and they’re collecting the same salary amount, yet he refuse to cooperate with us to pay some bills and others useful things but he will be using the one we buy Like toothpaste, bathing soap, drink water, food, etc.
Severe times my hubby would be grief with Anger and bitterness without courage to speak out to his friend about it, but can only speak out to me, After renting the apartment we made some adjustment and decoration no money Left for our feeding luckily a customer transfer money to me for catering services which I take out part of the money to prepare food that we ate.
my problems now is after I and hubby finished eating my hubby go ahead to prepare Garri and dish soup for his friend to eat I couldn’t hold back my composure I confront both of them by telling his friend that we have tried enough to do all these for him still he hasn’t contribute to anything in the House, even though we don’t have anything at home he wouldn’t care to buy but waiting for us to buy for him to use, that I can’t bear it anymore, he started telling if I need money for all the food he has been eating in our home he can pay me, please i’m doing the right thing??because After everything my hubby is feeling sad
From: Marital Counseling (MAC)
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