Help! Am about to lose the love of my life because we are not from the same tribe.
Hello, good evening sir
Help me post and Kindly hide my ID
I’ll need some advice and prayers too
I’m 24 and I’ve been dating this guy for over 4 years now right from my university days.
We bonded so much that he became my best friend, brother and the only person I could confined in… We both love each other soooo much. After my service he enrolled me in a catering school so I won’t be jobless for the time being able he always says he wants the best for me.
We’ve had our ups and downs but d love grew stronger.
Whenever we have a misunderstanding he’s always d first to reconcile.
He’s everything anyone could pray for…since we’ve been together he never cheated or even beat me… he’s indeed rare and one of a kind.
But the issue I have now is that my family has refused us getting married because of our tribe… he’s Igala and I’m Yoruba.
I’ve tried talking to dem but to no avail…he even suggested he get me pregnant maybe they will accept but I declined and told him to give me time…the love didn’t stop we continued again but my family still decline. we’ve tried breaking up several times..but after few days we’ll get back again..I love him so much and so scared of losing him..
But unfortunately he gave up because he feels time is not on his side and his family members are waiting for him to get married cuz he’s d first child…he’ll be 29 this year. I’m also d first child too…
He broke up again but it’s really hard to leave each other. But he’s at the verge on moving on.
Please what should I do?
Allow him get me pregnant and then we move or I should go with what my parents want… I’ve prayed, fasted and done midnight prayers for God’s Will but I’m Soo confused, tired and frustrated…
I have no one to help me convince my parents not even my extended family… what should I do please. Help me🥲
From: Marriage Counselling and Relationship Advise
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