I Broke Up With A Married Woman-Now Her Only Daughter Is Madly In Love With Me
Sandra and Samuel (not real names)are twin brother and sister. They moved into our Estate six years ago. We met at the estate basket ball court. They were very good players and I was a 400 level sociology Student of Unilag (not real name of school) but I played professionally as well. Their family moved back to Nigeria after living in the US from birth.
We became very good friends from playing ball after school and during the holidays. Then one day, Samuel,who we call Sammie invited me to their house and that was when I met their mother. Their father is an American and living in the US. Their mom is stunning. She did not look like she gave birth to these two adults. She was also very kind and very sweet to her children and me as their friends.
I spent lots of time in their house and they also spent time in mine. After I graduated and went for service in Kogi, I came back home after a year and found out that Sammie and his sister had gone back to the states again. Their mother stayed back in Nigeria though. But travels from time to time. I went to greet her when I got back and she was really happy to see me.
She invited me inside and offered me champagne. I have only had shots of champaign before, not down a bottle like that. And then, we had whiskey. She was just a fun vibrant woman. She said she wanted to celebrate my successful completion of NYSC. We were dancing. We drank and I enjoyed her company.
Before I knew it, she began to kiss me and I was a bit shocked but I didn’t have a girlfriend at the time, so I was overwhelmed with excitement that such a stunning woman wanted to kiss me. We had mad fun and had s*x. This continued every day. She became my secret chick. I would go to her house soon as most people in the estate had gone to work ad have s*x with her for hours.
Later on, she helped me get a job and our affair continued for the next several months. Towards Christmas time, She told me her daughter was coming for Christmas and so we have to stop our relationship until after her daughter leaves in January. I agreed. When Sandra came for Christmas, I was surprised cos she came to our house. I was friends more with her brother Sammie so I was not expecting her as such.
Sandra wanted me to come to her place. I mean, I am like the only friend she and her brother have in Nigeria. I had to give several excuses why I could not come to hers. So, instead, she started coming to our house almost every evening, soon as I got back from work. My parents liked her cos I mean, she is a beautiful half cast. And well mannered as such.
A few days before Christmas, Sandra came to our house and said she wanted to tell me something. I asked what: she said, she likes me and has been thinking about me. I was shocked My head spinning. Meanwhile, her mother was already sending me messages to discourage Sandra from coming to see me but what do I tell this girl to make her stop?
I lied to Sandra that I already have a girlfriend and she asked me to show her the picture of my girlfriend and our social media. I lied that she is not on social media. Sandra is persistent like her mother. She wanted me to give her a chance and she started to do everything to get me to like her back. She did everything to get me but I kept on resisting.
The straw that broke the camel’s back was a few nights before she was due to return back to the US. Sandra lied that was going to a party and needed me to be her plus 1. I suspected she was up to something but in my mind, I could just oblige her since she would be leaving in 2 days and she will be gone and I will be back with her mother whom I genuinely love.
We took an uber to this party and as I suspected, there was no party. It was a five-star hotel. Sandra paid for the best room and wanted me to sleep with her and just have fun. I knew I was crossing a serious line but this girl is twice as stunning as her mother. I was weak, I feel sorry for myself as I write this.
Sandra and I had s*x and I told myself that was the end …it would never happen again. But the next day, this girl comes to my house furious and crying. Apparently, she told her mother she likes me and spent time with me. Her mother’s reaction gave her away. Her mother was filled with rage and slapped her. She said that was when she knew that something was up.
They got into a fight and the mother told her that I was her boyfriend. Sandra got upset with me, that I didn’t tell her mother who is married is my so-called girlfriend. She threatened to tell her father and all that. Anyways, she left the next day and I thought it was the end of the matter.
Sandra’s mother broke up with me after that. She did not want to be seen as someone who slept with the same guy as her daughter. I begged her and begged her cos I really was in love with her. She refused and encouraged me to find a girl my age. As painful as it is, I moved on. I had to get an apartment away from my parent’s estate. That was in January.
Now, Sandra and I got talking two weeks ago on Instagram. She said she and her mother spoke and they have reconciled. That her mother understands that Sandra is in love with me and so, to buy Sandra’s silence, not to inform her father of the affair with me, she has allowed Sandra to be with me.
I felt really hurt cos I don’t love Sandra as much as the mother. I told her I am not interested and that really broke her heart more. The mother called me and begged me to please give her daughter a chance. That she would do anything if I just obliged the daughter. I told her I did not lie about my feelings. I am in love with her and not her daughter.
Sandra called me a few days ago and asked me to come to the US for Summer. All expense paid she said. She wanted me to give her a chance to show me how she felt. She then brought up what if we get married? I could become a US citizen and I would relocate and we will be together in the US. She said her father, even though has never met me, already heard so many good things about me. Sammie told him we are good friends. I spoke to her father on phone. The man already thinks me and Sandra are in love.
Truth is, the offer from Sandra is tempting. I know I could grow to love her. She is stunning like I said and well mannered. And the fact that she is going out of her way to woo me, is making my head swell…I cannot lie. My only worry is: I hope I don’t mess this up. Cos, I may still have feelings for her mother. Feelings that I have suppressed. Will those feelings cost me in the future? when she becomes my mother-in-law, will I still have hots for her?
I know it’s easy to grow to love Sandra cos she is very attractive too but it feels weird. That I will be married to someone I had a relationship with her mother for almost seven months. Her mother said it’s fine. That her sleeping with me last year was because She was only just catching cruise with me. She was lonely, her husband being in the US and she was alone here.
Now, does this mean the coast is clear for me? Should I give Sandra’s offer consideration and go visit her in the US this summer and see how our relationship goes from there? This could change my life forever …a lot of guys would think I am lucky to have this offer. My family already thinks I have an American girlfriend. All they are seeing is a green card. I don’t blame them. I am just trying not to overthink things. What would you do if you were in my shoes?
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