My husband thinks am cheating therefore wants me to swear at his village shrine
Good afternoon sister,
Sorry for coming into you inbox. Pls hide my ID and post for me. My husband said am cheating on him and must go to his village and swear in their shrine. All this is happening because I no longer bother myself over him and his bad behavior. I stopped checking his phone, stopped worrying myself about his late night.
He come back from work 1-2am daily sometimes smelling of alcohol. He chart wit girl and even give them money, and feels am not his responsibility. Bcos he asked me to do an abortion which I refused he now labeled me poverty. He I came to destroy him with children. I have 4kids which I had all through CS. Many of my attitudes today is as a result of trying to make myself happy rather to die in depression. Despite my tight scheduled,had to join choir just to get more busy in order to distract myself from him.
I so much love him that every of his strange behavior makes me cry, and he doesn’t care if am sad or not. Yes, I used my ex picture as my screen guard so that my husband’s behavior won’t be paining me, he saw it and got angry. My choir member drops me and other members off after rehearsals, he saw it and said that the both of us are dating.
He has told me severally that he doesn’t love me , but I keep trying all my best to win him.but each time I try It gets worsts . he keeps discuss me with his girl friend. If k refuse to swear they will say am guilty, thereby excommunicating me from my son. He will never eat nor sleep with me again. God is my witness, I have never and never though of cheating on him. I don’t know what to do.
Pls I need your advice. Sorry for the long post.