After Helping Him Secured A Job, He Is Giving Me Attitude. Is This A Red Flag?
Good evening ma,
please am sorry to badge into your inbox without your permission. Please I seriously need an advice. Please hide my identity. Am 27yrs, I have been in a relationship for 3 years plus now. Since I know this Guy he has nothing doing, I didn’t complain. He has no job I no complain, I believe he will soon get one, i finally got a job for him, although there where not paying well but I told him to manage till another one is out, so he listens and took the job, after 6 months he was promoted and was paid double of his salary.
To make it short , same guy start to see me as nothing to him ,he carries other women, lie, if I call he doesn’t pick and he will not call back, till maybe after two weeks. since I know him he never say I want to take you out .but i no complain also he goes out come back late hours 2am. I stay at my place calling all the time he goes out I complain to his mum about his late hours she say she will talk to him, he still stay late hours till today. at times he will pass me with a lady but ignore me, he will be online he won’t chat me. if I complain he will say why am I suspecting him I stopped chatting him. He still complain that am always online chatting and I can’t chat him.
if I fall sick to come and see me or even call and say how is my health he will not.at time if I go to his house I meet ladies clothes, and lots more, and he always promise but don’t fulfill his promise, he doesn’t call and he doesn’t pick my calls. if i see his call is when he needs something, like advice etc. Other Guys come for me but I tell them I have someone. Now if he see me with another guy he be jealous, but doesn’t want me to complain that I can’t compare myself and him cos he is a man.
He promise since 2 Yrs that he will go and see my parents till today nothing is done. The last time I ask him he should go and see my parents he didn’t say anything. I ask why the silent he said he doesn’t know what to say that was two months ago. Last week I told him am not well, he didn’t call or text instead he send me messages on WhatsApp asking saying am on line I can’t chat him. I didn’t respond to him. He only care about himself.
Please should I continue with the relationship or let him go ? I have no one to advice me am ready to listen to any advice right now.
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