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His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend’s House To Visit After Engagement


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His Fiancee Went To Her Ex Boyfriend’s House To Visit After Engagement


HI guys,

My friend who is a US citizen, single, no kids, no wife, and has been working in the US for close to 10 years. Things have gone well and he was planning to settle down this August. So he came to Nigeria about one and half years ago to do introduction and engage his high school sweetheart. Note, this is also when they officially / seriously started dating . All has been well, and the both of them, their families were preparing for the wedding in August.

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However, last week he just discovered that his fiancee recently went to visit her ex boyfriend. When he confronted her, she said she went because she was bored, and she refused afterwards to change her phone number (he wanted to stop them communicating), saying she didn’t sleep with her ex, and she only went for a hangout in his house.

My friend has cancelled the wedding as we speak, and everybody is begging him to re-consider. Between, the lady’s age is within the range of 33 to 36. And my guy is between 37 to 40. He is confused as we speak, because he is taking a hard line on the issue, he doesn’t want to start his marriage life on a wrong foundation. At the same time, he is feeling hurt because of her unseriousness.

What should he do?
Source: Nairaland

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  1. He did well,it is better he marries late but right than getting married to a bad and promiscuous woman. Thank God he found out on time about her, she went to hang out in her ex’s house,rubbish and nonsense. I come and go in peace bikonu

    • Feeling bored…really?
      She is not serious at all…
      Feeling bored and you can’t video call ur guy or just a normal call to him.
      She is having something common with her ex. My guy, thank your stars for shining brighter to expose her.

      Just relax bro, happiness in marriage is better than crying for saying am getting older. Your genuine woman is coming sooner

  2. He should not reconsider at all.. his decision is right.. that woman is not pure because she has no reason to be with the ex.. make ex remain ex abeg.. what’s her business with him being bored?? She be television abi na comedian wey dey kill boredom she be??
    Tell your friend to face front please..

  3. I tell people, marriage is not by force, marriage is over rated, your happiness is in your hands not in your marriage. Cheating is now very rampant these days, even if he doesn’t marry her, the next lady too can be a cheater, my point is love yourself and make yourself. What if he didnt find out she went to see her ex, so since he knows, let him decide, but I SAY, your happiness is in your hands not your marriage.


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