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Please Help Me- I Do Not Want To End Up Like My Abusive Father


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Please Help Me- I Do Not Want To End Up Like My Abusive Father

Hello everyone,

Can you please pray for me I’ve been praying alot lately, I have a problem of anger issues and insecurities ever since I lost my job. Without making any excuses I was raised by an abusive father, I would watch my father beating my mom like it was the right thing to do.

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Maybe I kinda inherited that from him, cause my late baby mom I used to beat her, until she left me from that day I promise myself I’ll never raised my hands to the woman again, yes I kept all those promise but now it’s starting to be more of emotional abuse.

I will shout at her break up things just to show my anger, till recently during my moods swings I threw a glass and that piece of the glass went on and slightly cut her finger, and she was bleeding and I cause that bleeding 😢😢😢 right now I feel like about to lose her, which servers me right. You can’t hurt the person you claim to love, but all I want now is to ask her for forgiveness.

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I truly love her she’s the best thing that has ever happened to me, that piece of glass, that small cut will be the cause now I lost her.

Gentleman take care care of your woman you’ll never know you had a good woman until she’s gone and to you love of my life I hope and pray you will forgive me one day, you were the best thing I ever had.

So friends I’m pleading you to pray for me so these demons can leave me.
Thank you for reading my story I hope you will learn from it or it will help someone.

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Anonymous from Lively Stones Facebook Marriage & Counselling Support Group

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Please Help Me- I Do Not Want To End Up Like My Abusive Father
A passionate people and godly relationship advocate!...Trained Psychologist and Human Resources Practioner. A seasoned Marriage and relationship counsellor. A mother, wife, sister, friend and daughter. J


  1. You need to work on your temperament, that your father was abusive should not be the reason you are also behaving this way. Pray and learn to overlook biko before you go kill person oooo. It is well with you

  2. I’m happy you are already praying about it.
    You also need to seek professional help.
    Don’t try to deal with this on your own. Get help to do with those past wounds so you can move on.
    God bless you


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