My Husband Cheated And I Reconnected With My Ex – Please Advise
I need matured inputs please.
I am a married woman, with a child.
My Marriage has been really rocky. Quarrels every now and then.
What basically causes the problems is our differences, we just don’t understand each other, it wasn’t so visible during dating.
Although we did not date for long….but being married, it has been from one issue to the other, right from a week after our wedding.
I have always contemplated leaving, but I am yet to be fully independent.
Sometime this year, I found out he has been cheating (I was not surprised, but I was heart-broken) my discovery strengthened my resolve to leave the union.
In the process of nursing my heartbreak, I reconnected with an ex, we got talking and he helped my heal. I did not tell him what I was going through at the time…I was just enjoying the attention he was showing me.
I should state that I did not tell my husband about his cheating, I held all the emotions back, it was a very difficult period for me because I am usually the outspoken type.
My ex is not based in the country where me and my husband reside, we just communicate on phone, he says he misses me and would want us to meet when he is in town.
I should also state that my ex was married but divorced.
I would not deny my having feelings for my ex, and I also do not want to believe in a fairytale ending, I am just confused.