My Destiny Helper Gives Me Everything But I Need A Job-Pls Advise
Hello please keep me anonymous. I’m a young lady of 25 years and I finished my youth service last year and have been unemployed for a year now. During my youth service I met a very influential and wealthy man and we’ve been dating for over a year now.
Truth is he has been my destiny helper and has helped me immensely. (He is way older than me , in his fifties and we may not settle together, I can’t tell but we’re just having fun. please do not judge me. It’s the situation) He has provided accommodation for me and pays me weekly. I lack nothing and he has been amazing.My only problem is he doesn’t want me to work.
Not to blow my horn but I’m a very brilliant lady with excellent results from the university yet he doesn’t want me to work and it’s beginning to frustrate me. I got a job and he forced me to turn it down because he says he doesn’t feel safe.
I started a business and he stopped me because he says he doesn’t want to loose me to another man because I’m respectful, calm and a good girl. He is very protective and jealous. Now my mates are working and I feel bad sometimes because they’re all expecting a lot from me because of my performance in school and I’m tired of being idle. It’s always been my dream to be a career lady.
I’ve been very depressed lately and pleading with him to help me get a job because he is very influential but he doesn’t want to assist me. He even has his own company but he says he can’t employ me because we can’t be in the same environment. Yet he doesn’t want to talk to any of his friends to also employ me. I just don’t understand and it’s killing me.
Why doesn’t he want me to work? and How do I convince him to help me secure a job ? Please help. I’ve tried searching on my own but not getting any job because is all about who you know and I don’t have anyone aside him who can help.
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