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How I Discovered My Fiancé Has A Kinky Affair -Pls Advise

How I Discovered My Fiancé Has A Kinky Affair -Pls Advise

My name is Anita (not real name). I am 35 years old, a registered nurse working in one of the big hospitals here in the city. I have been in a relationship with my man for almost one year now. He is a good guy and I love him sincerely.

I was introduced to my Man’s aunty about 5 months ago. He calls her his mummy, who took him in here in Nigeria when he came from Ghana six years ago. But this woman is actually his mother’s former boss. The mother worked as a house keeper for the woman and her husband in Nigeria for almost 20 years.

When she retired and went back to Ghana, she begged the woman to help her son find a job in Nigeria. That is how my man came to work for this woman’s husband as his company Accountant for six years now. This woman’s husband is also a clergy man, so he is a clergy man’s wife. They have grown up children who are abroad, only one son still in boarding school here in Nigeria.

Since we been dating, everything is going smoothly and he is already talking of marriage. This Aunty and her husband already accepted me as his wife to be. Sometimes, we go there to spend time with the family. We have even talked about travelling to Ghana to meet his mother and family, so they can meet his future wife.

Then something bad happened. My phone got bad last week, and I had no money to buy another, so my man gave me his old phone to put my sim inside. While playing with the phone, a phone software update came up and I clicked it, so the phone updated itself. That made the phone to restore some of the old files in the phone.

I did not think much of it but I just went through some pictures and some videos in the phone. That is how I saw a s*x tape of my man and his Aunty. His so called Aunty had him handcuffed to a bed and was using dildo on him. It looked like he was enjoying it…it was like all those things you see in movies, where the lovers will be torturing each other when having s*x.

My man was begging her to punish him, that he has been a naughty boy…she whips him and does all kinds of violent crazy s*x acts with him…I was dumbfounded cos this woman is also a Clergy man’s wife. I cannot imagine her saying and doing all those dirty things they did in the video.

I confronted my man…the surprise on his face when he realized what I discovered, he almost passed out. He then started to explain that it was in the past, that he and the woman had a brief affair when she was having marital issues but she and her husband have longed settle and have moved on.

My man thought he deleted the video but when I updated the phone software, the cloud files updated. I am dumbfounded and don’t know what to do. This is crazy, so my husband was f*cking a married woman who the whole world thinks is his mentor? Someone seen in the society as upright and a clergy’s wife?

My man has been begging me not to say anything and begging me not to end our relationship but this woman is still his boss…I asked him if he will quit his job cos I don’t trust both of them together, he said no need to…that the whole thing ended over three years ago and that both of them have moved on, that he has had two girlfriends since after then.

What baffled me more was the type of kinky s*x they were having. A woman inserting a dildo inside a man and he was moaning like he was in cloud nine? Please what does this mean? He said they were just doing role play but I suspect he likes gay things cos I don’t understand why they had to go that far?

Tell me, what should I do…I cannot even bring myself to ask him how he can allow someone insert something inside his anus as a man….he said its just an act…can you believe him, should I accept his explanations or should I leave him alone after what I discovered? I am in a dilemma.

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2 COMMENTS

  1. He probably is lying, if you check well he may still be sleeping with her.. Dear one, cheaters always lie and when they are caught, they will only be smarter in hiding their tracks.

    Do not trust anyone, I repeat do not trust anyone…the bible say so several times. Even if you check his phone, he might have deleted the chat, but trust me when I tell you cheaters will only be smarter in hiding their tracks when caught.

    My advise is even if you decide to stay with him, prepare for the worse. Sex is a very sweet act,dont buy the idea of she is clergyman’s wife, many so called clergymen and wives of these men known as Pastors wives are not real followers of GOD, some of them just went to Bible school to graduate, some are even false prophets.

    Dear one the advise I normally give people is do not trust anyone, humans will do what they want irrespective of whether you trust them or not. Just prepare for the worse. Peace

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