How I Let The Devil Into My Home-Will My Marriage Survive This?
Last Friday, I met a lady who came to prayer mountain and we got talking after prayers. This lady told me to send my story to lively stones for advise. So my story goes like this: I have been married for nine years and six months. When I met my husband, we decided to wait as Christians for marriage before s*x.
After marriage, we started trying to have children but for three years, there was nothing forth coming. That is when I joined my present church cos I was told they fast and pray alot for people looking for the fruit of the womb and they always have results.
A year after I joined the church, I got pregnant but had a miscarriage along the way. The following year, I had another miscarriage. One woman that I used to take as my prayer partner, she too got pregnant and had several miscarriages. Her husband and his people frustrated her to the point that she moved out of her home.
My husband and I accepted her when she came to plead with us to let her stay with us. While living with us, we used to pray together, pray for her marriage and for God to bless us with fruit of the womb.
Later, she went back to her home but since we already bonded, she sometimes comes to my place for all night prayers with me. So, after a little while, she got pregnant again. And to the glory of God, she gave birth to a boy. I was truly happy for her but I started having issues when I noticed that since she gave birth, she did not want to relate to me anymore.
I was surprised cos I do not believe she can treat me like this just because she now have a baby and I do not have one yet. She stopped taking my calls or visiting, always saying she is busy with her baby and when I want to come and visit her, she will say she dont want any evil eye around her baby.
My husband advised me to leave her alone and focus on my case. As time went on, I started having issues with my husband. This man that used to be very supportive started being mean to me. He stopped praying with me, saying I am the one that needs to pray cos he is now sure that he is not the cause of our not having a baby,…that its me that cannot carry a baby in my womb due to one thing or the other.
I did not get what changed him but I just hated how much he stopped caring for me. The next thing, our pastor called me and said he wanted to tell me something. He told me that lady and her husband are breaking up cos my husband was caught having s*x with the woman in their home.
From confession, the woman said that she and my husband has been sleeping together since she was in my house that time they were having issues and that my husband is responsible for their baby. My world crumbled at hearing this from my pastor. They wanted to tell me cos my husband told them that he and the woman are planning to marry. The church suspended both my husband and the woman.
That minute, I almost lost my mind. I started to blame myself for bringing a devil into my home to scatter it. My husband confirmed what the pastor said as being true. They both got an apartment and my husband moved out of our home. I am not divorced neither am I with my husband. Its been almost seven months since all these happened.
I have been told to pray for my husband for him to return to his senses. I gave him 9 years of my life, two miscarriages…yet he left me for someone else just because of a child. I am here praying for him but its like this man does not even think about me. I told myself if this year ends and I do not hear from my husband, I will file for divorce.
I am exhausted, betrayed and tired of crying and praying. I need advise on what next to do. My family keeps blaming me for bringing that woman to my home. They have called my husband to come and tell them if he is no longer marrying but he has refused to come. I sometimes see vision that he will come back to me praying and begging me after the juju that woman used for him clears.
It was at this prayer mountain, this lady advised me to share my story with lively stones. What should I do? Do you think my marriage will still work after this? How long should I continue to pray and wait? Some Christians say I should divorce ,some say divorce is a sin…but what should I do in my case?
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