True Life Story: I Betrayed My Family And Friends Because Of A Love Affair
I need to unburden my heart. I have been living in heavy bondage for the last two years. This burden was caused by me. I feel so heavy in my heart and very suspicious too. So, I was married to my very beautiful and wonderful wife. I loved her so much and everything was fine until I met this woman called Boma (not real name).
I am not the type to cheat on my wife. I have never even seriously cheated before marriage but when I met Boma, I do not know how I became entangled with her. We started having an affair. It was just friends with Benefits but I became more and more attached to her, that I began to loose interest in my wife.
My wife noticed I was loosing interest and she did all she could to talk to me and win me back. She eventually discovered I was cheating and she was heartbroken. She tried several spiritual intervention but I was headstrong. I cheated openly. I spoke to her without respect and even insulted her openly.
I eventually moved out of my home to live with Boma. My wife found out she was pregnant that same month but I did not give a hoot. I was in love with Boma. My family and her family tried to talk sense into me but I refused to pick their calls neither did I answer any call for family meeting.
Boma also got pregnant and I paid her bride price without m family’s consent. We were married and that is when my wife started having health challenges. People said she developed high BP because I abandoned her and the pregnancy. She eventually lost the baby (a boy) in her second trimester. I was told but I did not bother to show interest.
My wife filed for a divorce after she left the hospital. Boma gave birth to a baby girl. I lost contact with my wife. But shortly after Boma put to bed, we started having issues. I started noticing that she was fetish and flirting with men. I think that was when I realized that she must have gone fetish on me.
When I confronted her if she used any jazz on me, she laughed an evil laugh and said I was a waste of resources. She said she realized that she worked too hard to keep me when my value is so small. Boma’s mother too started giving me issues. That he daughter made a mistake to marry me. That her daughter deserves to be with a richer man than me.
I begged Boma not to disgrace me when it became obvious that she was hanging out with very rich men. Boma would hardly even look after our child. She got a nanny and would abandon the baby for weeks while travelling all over the country. I can say my eyes are open now. I see how I lost myself.
There is no way I could have left such a caring wife if Boma did not do something spiritual to make me leave my wife and unborn child to die. Someone close to Boma’s family told me that Boma’s mother is very fetish, that she was the one behind my baby’s death, so I would not be tied to my wife even after I married Boma. They killed my baby with my beautiful wife.
My heart is very heavy. I am living in serious regret and I wish I could undo all the wrong I have done to my wife and my family. How will they forgive me for marrying a woman that destroyed our lives? Our baby? For having a child with the enemy? I am a shadow of myself and I have started to loose faith in myself cos I know God has forsaken me.
There you have it, I have not been able to tell anyone about that is happening to me because I abandoned a all my friends and family to follow Boma. What do I do now? Sometimes, I feel like I have lost the right to be happy again cos all around me is fight everyday with Boma. We are not even intimate again.
We are living in such a toxic relationship, Boma is cheating on me, I am cheating on her but I am not doing it out of anything but anger and need to revenge on Boma. But I feel terrible cos I am always thinking of my wife. Our divorce is not yet concluded. I am leaving Boma but I am in so much regret….Do I even stand a chance with my wife again ?Maybe never…Or should I just forget about her and start afresh? What about our families? Will anyone forgive me for being such a betrayer?
Please advice me.
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