Please I saw your number on Facebook and I need advice 4 my relationship.
I have a boyfriend that I love so much,we have known each other for a very long time now,I use to have trust issues with him so once I saw what someone posted on Facebook that she tested her boyfriend before, to know whether he loves her by changing her no on Whatsapp to act as another girl but the boyfriend insisted that he has a girlfriend that he loves so much.
So I decided to test my own boyfriend a day before yesterday,I changed my no and chatted him up on Whatsapp telling him that I got his contact on Facebook that I love him so much,I asked him whether he has a girlfriend and he said no that he don’t want to have now so I went far by telling him that I want us to date and he said OK till we see.
I asked him where he want us to see and he said I should come to Aba that is where to reside and I told him that I want to come to his house and spend a day in his house and he said no problem that he don’t allow girls in his house but because of me he will so I told him that I will be coming to his house today by 9.
He said OK,sir or ma I love this guy so much he is my first love,he even told me that we will get married,but now I am seriously hurt inside for denying that he don’t have a girlfriend and agreeing for a girl he don’t know to come to his house and spend a day,so I want to text him that I have reach to the bus stop he told me to come,and if he told me that he is already there to pick me up then I have known.
I have gotten strong evidence and will break up with him and block him in all the social media I have him as a friend,it is hurting me deeply but I want to break up with him today,I want hear your own opinion on this please.
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I’m just thinking ,what if the guy knew you are playing pranks on him ?
Lol… Even if he didn’t know. A smart guy would say he knows
And how are you sure he doesn’t know you are the one and he is just playing along with you?You better don’t break up with him and stop testing him,because the other girl tested hers and it worked for her doesn’t mean it will work for you.Fight and make your relationship work biko nne since you love him so much.
To me the guy is just playing along just to who is behind it, Sha take it easy.
What if he is playing along? ( I mean know already that you’re playing trick on him)
Well my dear if that be the case you can’t kill yourself. You just have to move on and be strong.
I think you should confront him to be sure.dont be too hasty in your decisions because I sense he already knows it’s you.
Remember he said he doesn’t bring girls to his home but will allow it because it’s you.wishing you the best of luck.
He might be playing along too. So the best thing is for you to confront him. Don’t pack your bags yet.
I don’t know why babes especially do this. Going extra mile to prove to yourself if he loves you or not when it’s his job to prove it to you .
If there is something he is doing you don’t like, talk about it. If it continues and it’s a deal breaker for you then leave. Putting yourself through all this when you are the prize to be win is just absurd.
There is a possibility that he knows it’s you and just playing along. If so, what will you do? Stay back? He could also not know but on seeing you will say he knew all along. So will you stay back? Define what you want and take appropriate decision. Love (to the opposite s*x) is a choice not an assignment or punishment.
My dear leave that boy alone cos he is not a man yet still wants to play around don’t always use emotions to think use your brain(Hq),a man who can’t commit to a relationship is not be worth ur time pls
Hmmm… If it turns out he was just playing along nko?.. And if he is not, you just try and move on
He might be playing along, just take it easy.
I don’t think you need any advice for now. Assuming you came here to ask for advice before carrying out this test i.e. you asked us to advise you whether to carry out the test or not, it would have been understandable.
No matter what you are told here, you will still make sure you keep on testing your boyfriend till he fails or pass. So continue your prank and get to the root of it.
It’s just that this your test might not even work. If he was actually trying to date the new girl you are role playing, and when he comes out to meet you at the bus stop, he could easily deny everything and say he was just playing along. So you can’t even catch him red-handedly.
Let me say this generally. It is not a good thing to test your partner. Take for instance, If guy A is dating lady B, and A decides to test B. Once he starts that test, his trust for B will automatically reduce. A will keep on monitoring / testing B until the day she fails. So that is the same thing you are going through, even if your boyfriend passed this test right from the start, you would have felt like trying again in another way because of your insecurity.
If you know you can’t sincerely trust him, then break off from that relationship and find someone you trust. Stop testing guys that are dating you. It will make you to easily lose yourself, your feelings, your trust and eventually disrupt your relationship. If there is no natural trust during dating, I wonder how your marital life would be. I pray you learn how to be secure in your relationships.
It is well with you !!!!
Even married men cheat on the legally married partners, you are here brooding over a man you have no right over. You took your gamble to far. That he fell for your pranks does not imply he doesn’t Oe cherish you. He was likely playing along, and at worst fling with the intruder that u posed as unfortunately. You better fight for what is yours and live happily after. Do you know how that next man will behave if you decide to leave him?
Hello,
Since you have tested him
Maybe you should meet him as planned
He will be shocked to see you but get his explanation . Or maybe he is also playing you,maybe he knows you are testing him
In any case…there is serious trust issues around your relationship
I think you need to let him go
For your peace of mind
All the best
Real serious trust issues
if you loves him that much you don’t have to ignore him, actually just cancel your date with the guy and give him at least another chance by asking him about his girlfriend to see whether he loves her or not.
All the best …
Never you play a prank on a man just to test is Faithfulness. In your case he could be playing along, he might just want to hit and run, but whatever it is, sit with him and have a heart to heart talk with him.
Don’t break your relationship with him because you have to be confident of yourself that he is your man come rain come shine,but I m of the opinion that you confront him and tell him you know his game already but give him a second chance because you are hurt for the fact he denied you but don’t break up with dear,you need to tolerate is too early for you to jump to conclusion and is also too early for you to start ending relationship abruptly, endure and grow with him but at the same time projects your territory.
Hahaha. Someone said don’t test people unnecessarily. Because you may be disappointed… But I think he is just playing along to see who it is.
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