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Jzhane
Good afternoon admin,
I’m sorry for sending a private message to you concerning the woman that got to know about the infidelity of her husband through this compulsory holiday caused by corona virus.
I didn’t want to send it to the platform .
I have some advice for her because what happened to her also happened to me two years ago and the same attitude her husband put up is the same attitude of apology without detail explanation of how he met himself there or what my offense was.When it happened to me after much crying.
I asked him to call all of them in my presence and tell them that the relationship dies that day. With shame and crying he did it.I started asking myself where I missed it.  I realized some of my flaws, I started adjusting and I involved God. I took steps as I was led.
I went to meet one of the side chicks that I saw on his phone because she is a well known person to me but I never knew we were rivals.I also called one of them on phone, introduced myself and we became friends. In fact she is as young as one of my daughters.
The two of them told me everything, where they were meeting and the level they were. But no child involved. They promised me to stop it.  In fact the younger one called him and started raining curses on him, he was the one that told me. I with the help of the Holy Spirit intentionally removed my mind from the case and focus much on interceding for my family.
Till today he has not told me the details but he has stopped. I’m sure of that. As you said your husband works with an oil and gas company, that is the problem. What do I mean, he is a man that wants to help people but couldn’t set boundaries. That’s the weakness of mine too.
Dear sister, get up and help him out. Sit him down and tell him about his weakness and proffer solutions. The world is polluted already, don’t give the devil what he is looking for. I have been married for 25 years, I know how you feel.
Forgive him and move on with him. Your children need their father. Thanks
Please admin, delete my name before posting, thanks.
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Jzhane
Jzhane
A passionate people and godly relationship advocate!...Trained Psychologist and Human Resources Practioner. A seasoned Marriage and relationship counsellor. A mother, wife, sister, friend and daughter. J

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