Should I Allow My Girlfriend To Come Stay With Me?
Hello guys, so I’m skeptical about this decision I’m about to take, my girlfriend will be joining the next batch of NYSC and I have been thinking of telling her to work it to Lagos.
Truth is, she learned fashion design sometime and she likes modelling for clothing brands and she teaches too, I believe with all of this she stands a chance of getting something tangible in Lagos than going to serve in one village.
My fear is this, (I recently got an accommodation, a single room self contain on the island, haven’t even told her yet)
So I need time to plan my future, I’m not fit financially to start fending for someone, if I am then my younger sister should be the one to come over ( though her service year is next year)
But if my gf is to come here, the agreement will be clear and concise, you fend for yourself while I fend for myself, don’t worry, the relationship is that defined and she understands.
My reason of wanting to do this for her is cause she has been very nice to me and she has helped me out financially and otherwise in the past though I repaid her.
But guys, my major fear is living with a girl in the same house, won’t attachment get serious, what if she gets pregnant? I don’t want anything to hinder my plans, I’m 29 actually and I’m not planning to settle down anytime soon.
Please I need advice and contributions.
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