True Life Experience: Help! I’m Love With One Of My Staff
Hello everyone.
Please I sincerely need your help in terms of advice and counselling.
I am a young man in my mid thirty, has a beautiful wife and 2 kids. I have about 32 staff working for me. Just recently, December to be precise I started developing an emotional attachment to one of my staff. I told her I want her to join me to see a movie and she said she was travelling and she won’t be around but January was fine. I knew she was avoiding the outing so I bought a ticket to the movies and sent it to her she never showed up and I didn’t call her until work resumed on January 4th and I asked why she didn’t come for the movies and she apologise that she was busy.
I told her we can go see the movies now since she initially wanted January, she said she can’t that she doesn’t want to be seen with a married man, and besides my wife is nice to her and also she doesn’t want any girl with her husband when she eventually gets married so she won’t want to be with anyone’s husband that I belong to someone else.
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I told her I don’t want S** from her, all I want is from her is a squish relationship. she practically turned it down that she can’t because she will be hurt in the end because belong to someone else.
Honestly, I felt hurt because I truly love her. I am more emotionally drawn to her even more than before. We spend considerable time chatting every day and on phones in the evening till night after the day’s job. She is not so comfortable spending time in my office as she told me the day I was not in the office everyone kept asking after the boss from her and she felt embarrassed and asked them why can’t call to know why I am not in the office.
she said we should please remind her the way it is, just chatting and phone calls and she can’t afford to be seen around with a married man.
I really love her and I feel hurt as she is turning me down. I wish I can stop loving her, I really don’t know how to stop loving her as I really wish not to hurt her.
Please I need the mature minds here to help give workable suggestions.
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Source: Nairaland
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Bia this man,leave that girl alone. Face your work and honour your marriage vows. I love that beautiful soul for turning down your advances. So you love her so much and hate your wife so much,okwaya. Receive Jesus and live your staff member alone. Don’t destroy your marriage with your own hands, no be when madam find out now,you go come begin find advice
Who is this again!
I don’t think it’s love you love her ooo. Please concentrate on your business and take your wife to the movies. For God knows the last time u take ur wife out for a dinner or movie. Allow the lady to be Please. Biko…
I don’t understand the rationale behind bringing this story here. That way you Dey fine, if you see an make you now run oh.
You can’t be rubbing your body with fuel and staying close to fire the claiming you don’t want to get burnt. Why puting yourself in danger for God’s sake? Divert that love to studying a book about your business or bible. Stop communicating her. Set a boundary if the urge to call her comes tell yourself i must tell my wife first before calling her. Have you tell your wife about your feeling for the lady? If you have not pls do, that is your root of escape.
I’m truly sick of some men…really sick. You are married and chasing another lady, she has turned you down and you claim you love her, you don’t know what to do.
You know exactly what to do. Did you read what you wrote, you are in your mid thirties and you wrote this. This is serious.