True Life Story: A Dangerous Affair With A Married Woman Please Advice My Friend
Hello Lively Stones,
I need a quick advice for my guy. Me and George (not real name) have been friends for over 7 years now. About 4 years ago, he met Hetty (Not real name). Hetty is a like candy to the eye. To say she is beautiful is an understatement. My guy fell flat in love. He was like very smitten with her. They dated for a year and he was ready to marry her. All of us knew his intentions towards her.
All of a sudden, out of no where, Hetty tells my guy that the relationship is moving too fast, that she needs some space. We were all surprised cos its guys that usually complain when a girl is applying pressure for marriage. Here, you have a guy who wants to settle down and you say he is moving too fast?
George did not understand….us too. We asked if he annoyed her in any way…he said no. I tried to talk to Hetty…she was not forthcoming. My guy was sick…he was running mad…he was missing her…calling her…begging her. Infact…he told me he was going to buy her a car, to make her change her mind about him. We told him no…how can you buy a car for a girl that you are not yet married to?
So, George started the process of buying the car. A 2020 Toyota camry. He wanted to surprise her with the car on her birthday which was like in 2 months. He was doing everything to fast track the car shipment. My guy even took loan to complete the shipping process. Just a month to her birthday…Hetty posted her wedding invitation with pre-wedding photoshoot on social media.
George almost died of shock. All of us could not believe it. For the first time in my life…I said…women are more deadly than the devil. George still tried to beg her but she blocked him on all social media. That is how my guy chop breakfast o. Since then, he has not recovered. Thank God he had not given the car to the girl…he sold it. But he has not dated anyone serious since…yes, he’s been on a few hook ups but no real relationships.
Its been two years after the breakup. Hetty is trying to come back to George. She married a cheater. Lol…karma is a bitch…Hetty’s husband cheated on her and abuses her verbally. Her marriage is a nightmare according to her and she has realized she made a terrible mistake. She reached out to beg George to forgive her. My guy told her about the car he was trying to get her…she realized how foolish she was now.
When George told me that Hetty asked for forgiveness…I told him to forgive but never allow her back into his life again. But I think my guy is still in love. I just found out that George and Hetty are sneaking behind everyone’s back and they are f*cking. Hetty…married woman o.
We have spoken to my guy…everyone of us his friend has told him to let go of this woman cos she is danger…my guy said he can’t stop loving her. Initially, we all thought it was just s3x cos he said Hetty and her marriage are almost done cos she and her husband have not sleeping together for months. So, we thought Hetty was just horny and looking for a free f*ck.
However, George says Hetty is filing for a divorce to come back to him and so he is waiting for her to do so and they can marry. Please how else do we tell this guy that once a cheater always a cheater? I am afraid for my friend. They have been having hide and seek s3x for almost 5 months now. My guy is getting deeper and deeper…everyone is worried for my guy.
The funny thing is…Hetty told George that she is pregnant…since she is not sure who is the father (whether George or her husband…that she will abort the pregnancy)…how will Hetty say she has not been sleeping with her husband yet she is not sure who the father of her baby is? George said the husband forces himself on her once in a while.
My friend is begging her not to abort…that even if the baby is not his…he will love the baby…abeg…no be juju be that? I told George he has lost his mind …this girl is going to be his doom I swear. But he thinks I am being an over protective friend. So, I told him lets debate this on Lively Stones…he thinks Hetty is his soul mate…and he wants her no matter her flaws. Abeg…the person wey do Hetty juju needs a medal…or am I wrong?
Please advice my friend…
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