True Life Story: Fear Women-See How My Ex Has Been Controlling My Life For Over Ten Years-Pt 2
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Now, I am confused…What does Amanda want me to do? Leave my child for another man to raise? I asked her and she said I cannot lay claim to the child cos she is still married….that any child conceived in marriage is for the husband…ha…this woman….you see why I can never marry? I need to get this off my chest. Rachael is still not giving up even despite my rejecting her and me, I no reject woman like that.
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Two weekends ago, Rachael came for a weekend and since then, she has refused to leave. Maybe her plan is to get pregnant but I have started strapping up and she is not finding it funny…few days ago, she almost bit off my penis cos she wanted the condom off…I don taya…what should I tell her to leave me alone….maybe that I have disease? I have told her she is not my type…told her am not going to marry her…she said no problem….that she just needs a partner…that she is not a child.
So I chilled…. two days ago….Amanda called me to meet up…told her I couldn’t….next thing…she pulled up at my place…told her to leave cos Rachael went to the gym but would soon be back…this horny pregnant woman wanted to f#ck…and even though I did not want to…we ended up doing several rounds which made us loose track of time….it was Rachael’s call that she was at the door that got us back to reality.
When we adjusted quickly and opened the door for Rachael….one look told Rachael we just had s3x…..Rachael went mad and started abusing Amanda….only cos she was pregnant….she would have physically attacked Amanda….Amanda left as quickly as she could but Rachael has also figured out that I am the father of the baby Amanda is pregnant with but I have been denying it …telling her I never slept with her without protection.
Now…Rachael is threatening to tell her brother about the pregnancy except Amanda leaves me alone….I think I need a break…I have left my house to a hotel….switched off my phones….I am thinking of how to get both women out of my head and my life….truth is…If am being honest…I never really stopped loving Amanda….I h@te to admit it but I despise her for all that she has done to me…how she knows I love her…yet she is still married to someone else and she is carrying my child….
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I feel like…I will never be able to get Amanda out of my head….maybe I have been using Rachael to get rid of her but its not working…I needed to get this off my chest. Right now…I feel completely overwhelmed with all that is happening and I needed to get things off my chest.I am not trying to claim being a saint…I am not one at all…but I am open to any suggestions on how to deal with these matter on ground….it is beginning to weigh on me and distract me from my job and business. I need a solution to all these mess.
What can I do? This whole thing is getting too messy…
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I don’t know how people sleep with other men’s wives and more so you call him a your friend, you are an evil friend, you can kill a man because you want his wife. You deserve no pity bro.
You call Amanda, a wicked woman, you are worse than her, you have no idea the punishment not just for fornication but fornicating with married women, you are a very irresponsible man.
Men like you disgust me real bad. You better seek forgiveness of GOD and confess to Dennis. You even made the opinion that you warned Dennis about Amanda, how does that make it sensible for you to sleep with her?
I don’t see remorse in your post all, all I see is, lust, and greed. This is why I tell people, you just can’t trust people on matters of sex, your husband/wife will cheat on you and will act like nothing happened. Dennis will think, he is the Father of the child in Amanda.
How can you be this wicked? To the men that always trust women, I hope you learn from post like this, when we tell them, they say, they trust their wives, some are even raising others men’s children, on the other hand, to the men that sleep with married women, you have no idea what is waiting for you after death, I will not expansiate on that.
Tell Dennis the evils you have done, and how the baby Amanda is carrying is not is. Cut of from both women, and flee fornicating, but make sure, you tell Dennis what you have been doing and don’t try to lie that it was once or few times.
Dear poster that’s quite a complicated situation! It sounds like you’ve got a web of relationships that are getting tangled up.
Firstly, take a deep breath and acknowledge the complexity of your situation. It’s important to recognize the hurt and potential damage you’ve caused to those around you.
Here are some key points to reflect on:
You’ve impregnated your friend’s wife, Amanda, which has likely caused significant hurt and betrayal.
You’re now dating your friend’s sister, which may be perceived as another betrayal.
Amanda is still involved with you sexually, which could be seen as disrespectful to her husband and your friend.
Your friend’s sister is threatening to expose the situation, which could lead to further conflict.
Take responsibility for your actions, and consider the following steps.
Be honest with all parties involved about your actions and feelings.
Make amends with your friend and his wife, Amanda, if possible.
Evaluate your relationship with your friend’s sister and consider the potential consequences.
Take note of respect, honesty, and transparency in all your relationships in moving forward.
Best wishes
Sir better you change location carry your business elsewhere ……you are digging your grave…….remember this if u die sex will continue…..dont enter a grave now let it happen later
Dear poster pls come out plain and let every party involved know the secret, cos now Amanda knows it no longer a secret so u wouldn’t keep been entangled forever.
Dear poster , you are okay without any woman, please relax and find a way out,
Leave Amanda alone if she is married,
Let Rachel be if you don’t love her
Focus on what causes such ensure issues, heal and move on without them .
Dear Poster,
If Amanda has a problem and sleeps around and comes back to you, it is her problem.
But, you that finds it a good thing to continue to sleep with her when she is married has serious issue.
It’s painful that you know her husband yet, you went ahead to sleep with her. You claim you told Dennis not to marry Amanda… he made his choice, but you are mad because she chose Dennis over you.
You slept with her to prove your control and point that she prefers you and should be yours, not Dennis.
You said, “I h@te to admit it, but I despise her for all that she has done to me…how she knows I love her…yet she is still married to someone else, and she is carrying my child….”
Obviously, you felt like a loser. You even feels more like a loser now because having fun with her and impregnating her didn’t make her leave Dennis for you.
You deserve better. You need to break the shackles of Amand and your lust for women to start afresh.
If you will admit your wrongs and forgive yourself, and Amanda , then you need to get the paternity of that child first. Leave Amanda and her husband and go away.
Forget Rachel, you only used her. Leave that location and don’t drop a link to your whereabout.
Some things are better left alone or faced heads-up to trash them.
I would suggest you have a talk with Amanda and be sure she said the truth about the paternity of the child. If she insist, go for DNA test. If it’s positive be wise to handle the situation. If she says not your baby, still run the test to be sure.
Talk to Rachel, let her know you are done or leave her for a new place to start a new life.
I hope you find the courage to begin afresh.
Life is sweet and deserves to be lived in peace and harmony.