True Life Story: Fear Women-See How My Ex Has Been Controlling My Life For Over Ten Years
Hi Lively Stones,
Please hide my details. I want to get something off my chest. Fear who no fear women right….Over a decade ago, I made up my mind that marriage was not for me after I found out a girl I loved with all my heart was just playing with my heart and controlling my life with her p#ssy with also most of my friends. Let’s call her Amanda. She was the younger cousin of one of our friends. We were a group of four guys living big off campus back then in school. Amanda, a Mass Comm new student came to stay with her cousin, Favour still she sorted her accommodation.
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Thing is, Amanda was very stunning, like a goddess…not pretty…stunning…one of those girls that guys loose their minds over. It was a four bedroom flat and she would hang around all of us guys sometimes in our rooms. I fell hopelessly in love. The thing was, the girl was f#cking all 3 of us except her cousin but none of us knew until like we were in 400 level. Amanda wanted our relationship to be a secret cos of her cousin. Same sh!t she told all the 2 other guys.
How we found out later was during graduation, each guy wanted to claim her finally since we were all leaving school, this girl choose Dennis, the most gentle guy of all 3 of us. It was mad but Dennis was like, we should cut our losses that Amanda grew up with some trauma, so he understands her verry well and long story short, he does not care that his flat mates have slept with her. That incident changed my life for ever. I vowed never to trust a woman or even marry one.
Fast forward to like six years later….I get a job in Abuja. I found out Dennis and Amanda got married and live in Abuja with their son. They later tried to invite me for link up. After much, since I was new in town, I decided to go. We hung out and had a great time. After that, Amanda started chatting me….I began to recognize those signs from the past. I tried to ask her why she was doing this now she is married, she said marriage is boring, that she misses her single life.
Amanda took it upon herself to help me find apartment after which, she began to sneak back to me. I never trust women and felt sorry for my man Dennis cos we warned him his wife was a slut but he was feeling soft for her. Yes, Amanda had a rough child hood…she is an orphan, shes lived with many relatives who have sexually abused her and she ended with always wanting to f#ck as a way of draining her pain or whatever. But as an adult, she is very aware that men are attracted to her cos she’s foine like sexy like hell too…so she is taking advantage of men too.
I can’t say there are no women in my life but Amanda has a way of lighting a fire in me. So Amanda and I started f#cking each other for almost one year. She broke it off and told me she needed a break. I did not want a break cos I was hooked on her like cocaine. But I later found out she was pregnant. My brain tried to do the math and I suspected it was mine. She denied it saying she was on protection with me so I did not push it but I knew how wicked this girl is, I just shook my head and again felt sorry for Dennis. He married her…knowing the type of person she was…so dont blame a player….blame the gamer (Amanda).
After the break up, I tried to move on with my life with pregnant Amanda finally out of my life. Only for me to get a call from Dennis asking for my help from my contact for his younger sister. She needed a contact from someone I knew. That is how me and Rachael got introduced. Abuja single girls like Rachael are also vampires. That one, soon as she saw I was single, started coming into me. And me, a badass player…I did not fall hand.
The only problem is the yeye Rachael went to confide in Amanda that she likes me and wants to be with me. Amanda tried to discourage her that I am her ex but this girl will not hear. Amanda has been contacting me not to have anything to do with her sister inlaw….and am like….Nibo? Like….who the f#ck is Amanda to tell me who to be with? Cos her t@t@ sweet die no mean say man cannot knack any knackable. I ignored Amanda and she went ballistic.
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That is how Amanda told me that the pregnancy she is carrying is mine. I swear to god…this Amanda is a monster. How can you do that to your own husband? A guy who picked you up from the gutter? And to me????? Now, I have a child with you? And you are only telling me so I don’t sleep with your sister in-law? I swear…women are evil…maybe not all but you see these ones I have met in my life….chai…they can be dangerous.
Now, I am confused….
...TO BE CONTINUED
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What goes around come around….sir must u enter every hole…how about having a stable relationship with the right mentality…..just saying
Dear poster,not all women are like Amanda…. You need to tread with caution,be careful with women, be careful with whatever is under skirt so you don’t get into trouble… Be wise!
Dear Poster, try telling Amanda that you feel bad betraying your friend (Dennis) and you want to go and confess your sins to him. Let’s see how she takes it….if she doesn’t give a danm, then is a sign she is a monster….and I pity you.
Secondly, I still see “Okafor’s law” very much alive…. I can assure you that you will not be able to resist her if you start making contact with her again as I can tell that the lust you have for her runs deep, Bro. So try not to make that contact… She is still deeply into you, reason she doesn’t want any lady to come close to you…. You probably must have rocked her world that bad…
Thirdly, if that baby is yours, it means your sin has caught up with you and the only way out is to make peace with your guy – Dennis, the only way you can live in peace….. This is the most difficult thing to do but is the only way out…
Lastly, before you think of getting married, you must change your mindset about women. There are great and amazing ladies out there. If you are not able to believe so, better stay single to avoid getting married to another Amanda.
Dear Poster,
All women are not evil.
You attracted your like. Opportunist and people with no conscience.
You known Amanda has an issue… you are taking advantage of her knowing she married your friend.
If you can’t have self control, you have no right to judge Amanda. Since you know better, you should have acted better.
Amanda didn’t turn you into.what you are,you chose to be what you are today.
Change your mindset and let Rachael go!
Free yourself from Amanda, you deserve a new beginning and a stable love life.