True Life Story: How A Terrible Bet With My Coworker Is Haunting My Marriage
Hi Lively Stones,
Please I need your urgent advice. My name is David (not real name). I work in a bank, I am married with a kid. My wife and family are everything to me. I made a bloody mistake last week and I am in deep mess right now, I need your help. To be able to meet up sometimes with my work, I sometimes go to work on Saturdays.
Last week Friday which was public holiday, I went to work cos I had alot work not yet completed. Since it was a public holiday, the office was deserted. I had to play some music in order not to feel sleepy. Like two hours later, a colleague of mine came and I was surprised to see her cos she is a new staff who I am not really close to in the office.
I asked her why she was at work, she said, she has some work to do and she is also reading for her professional certification. I asked her if I should turn off my music, she said a little, that she actually likes music when working. So, not long, another colleague came. This was around 12 noon or so. Three of us worked till around 4pm when the other guy left to buy food.
Around that time, he came back and got us some cocktails saying he did not find food to buy maybe because it was public holiday. I told them that I do not take alcohol but the lady took some, she said she needed it to stay awake too, to read at night. As they drank, they started joking with each other, flirting and I knew the lady was getting tipsy.
Later, she went to the toilet. Like 2 minutes later, the guy followed. I knew they were off to no good. I tried to mind my business. The guy came back like 5mins later…and the later came back like 10mins later. Something really must have happened cos the next thing, the guy packed his things and left hurriedly, saying traffic was building, etc.
I sat on my desk, using side eyes to watch the lady. She was fuming. I had to ask her if she was alright. She kept quiet. I asked her if the guy hurt her and she said, yes. I was like, maybe he raped her or something…she said no…that they met up for a quick f*ck in the bathroom and the guy could not last up to 2 minutes.
That she is drunk and very horny and she is so furious. My eyes popped open. I was like…are you dating this guy before…why would you allow him f*ck you in a company toilet. She was like, what is the big deal…that its just s3x and for her, its a way of releasing stress…she was like…you should try it sometimes.
I told her no way…I am married, I do not sleep with random people. She started laughing like a mad person. Saying I am being self righteous. That she bets if she tries to, she can get me to f8ck her. I told her its impossible. She said…lets bet…I told her no. Next thing, she takes off her top, brings out her breast…sticks her hand into her vagina…shes fingering herself….twisting her nipples…shes masturbating herself.
That was when I was supposed to leave that place immediately but I was trying to prove to her that she was not affecting me but guess what…I was getting an erection just watching her. She continued…next she was moaning and saying she is about to come…that I should come stick it in her before she comes…
Like a robot…I stared at her…she comes closer to me and I did nothing to stop her. She kisses me and the rest is history. I f*cked her and I really enjoyed it. This girl started laughing afterwards…she was like…men, you are a beast…that she got me but I also did not disappoint cos I made her come.
We were talking dirty …she was clearly tipsy. I was feeling guilty but also feeling proud…like…I did what the other guy could not do to her. We did it again before we left the office around 7pm that Saturday. All through that night, she kept texting me…sending me dirty texts…that she cant stop thinking of my dick…bla bla bla
I had to block her number cos I was afraid my wife would discover. I felt so bad all through the holiday from Sunday to Monday. I was dreading Tuesday cos I did not know how to confront her when I see her in the office. This lady claims she is engaged o. On Tuesday was a very busy day, thank God. I saw her briefly and just said hi to her and rushed off.
All through the day, I avoided her. Around 4pm, she slips me a note and says, do not try to avoid me, if you do, I will report that you s3xually harassed me on Saturday. That threw me off balance. I had to call her and tell her to meet me after work at a restaurant near the office. Before I got there, she was waiting, smiling.
There, I told her that I made a mistake for having s3x with her last Saturday but I have no intention of continuing cos I am married and I have no plans to cheat on my wife. She said its just s3x…not cheating. And that its just to release stress and have fun. That she already wants me so bad and if I refuse her, I will regret it cos she will say I harassed her in the office last Saturday.
I became very scared and started begging her. She then said, ok…lets do it one last time…after that…I will forget about you. I looked at her…she is young, s3xy and very beautiful. I asked her why she wants me when she can have any other guy that is single and would want her…she replies and says…you c*ck is a masterpiece. I just want it more and more.
At this time, I knew even if we did it one more time, she will not stop coming for me. I just got up and left her. Before I left…I told her she can go ahead and say I harassed her but she will need evidence which I am sure she does not have. She said if I cross her…she will make sure I regret it cos my career will be over….because woman are usually believed when it comes to accusation of r*pe.
Truth be told, I had no idea how my legs was able to take me home after I left her. I was worried and still worried. I have not been able to sleep….I thought of confessing everything to my wife but its like I have gone too far,…she may never believe me or forgive me. I am scared. Scared of going back to work tomorrow. Scared of what the girl will do…scared of all these coming out and embarrassing me and my wife.
What should I do….its past 1am. I cannot sleep….I need help. I messed up but I need your help to sort this from getting any worse. Please advice me…I am not a cheater…I want to do better and I need help on how to do better…how do I also avoid this whole thing from bursting in my face?
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