True Life Story: I Want To Settle Down With Wife Material Or Marriage Desire
Hi Lively Stones,
It is not my intention to be in this situation but it so happened that is how I have found myself. That is the reason I want to make the right choice now and chose what is best for me. So, there are two ladies that I am in a relationship with. They both do not know about each other. I love both of them very well. I first met Gina (not real name) two years ago. She is my type of woman.
I love slim and very sexy women. Gina is beauty and brains. She has a good job and good character. If I did not meet Bekky, I would have married her by now without thinking. But I met Bekky last year. On my way to Abuja. Bekky is a big curvy girl, not my type of girl. But she was very friendly throughout the flight to Abuja. We exchanged number and she promised to host me if I come visit her.
Mennn…Bekky is a wife material all round. She is from Cross River, she made some ekpan kukwo and pounded yam when I came to visit her. A fantastic cook and we f*cked till day break when I came to see her. I was hooked on Bekky. So, that is how, she became my Abuja girlfriend while Gina is my Lagos girlfriend. I am not on social media, only Gina is on facebook but I told both ladies that I do not like to show off my relationship on social media so both ladies can never know about each other.
They both just know that I travel every 2 weeks between Lagos and Abuja. The day Bekky wanted to visit me in Lagos, I rented a shortlet apartment, I told her my place was being renovated. I love both ladies I wont lie. I have introduced both to my brother and mother. My family loves Gina because of her looks but what Gina does not have is: Bekky can cook and f*ck better.
However, my folks think Bekky is not fine enough for me. They are saying because she is fat, when she starts giving birth, she will be shapeless. I know I like slim women but Bekky excites me. There is no form of intimacy that she is not down for. And she is always in touch with my folks. Calling and checking on them. My people are already telling me to break up with Bekky cos she is acting like my fiancé already.
Its not like my family do not like her, she is not just fine like facially compared to Gina. And her size too. But Gina, is a city career girl. She is not as humble as Bekky. Not as freaky too. I can go on and on to describe the differences between both women but I see myself leaning more towards Bekky.
My worry is that, I have always said I must marry a fine woman. But I see myself turning towards a woman that is not that fine physically but internally. The only question I have is: I hope I do not regret it later in life. I have cheated because I am single, I do not want to cheat as a married man. So, who do I chose between both ladies?
If I choose Gina, I fear I cannot stop thinking about Bekky. If I chose Bekky, I fear I do not hate her body later in life. I know she excites me now, but her physic has never been my type. She even seen my exs from past and she sees that they are slim girls. Bekky oh Bekky…I am crazy for her…but confused if what I want is in Gina…but what I love more now is Bekky…they beauty is not what will sustain a marriage but it can make you happy…so also, ….s3x is not what keeps a marriage but its important.
Please advise me.
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