True Life Story: My Experience With A Family Pervert On Christmas Eve-Pt 2
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Hello Lively Stones Family,
I just want to update you guys about the situation. Things have gone from bad to worse. When me and my husband got back home after the trip to his Uncle’s place in Abuja, I thought the worst was over. I wanted to put the past behind me. But yesterday, all hell broke loose. It all started when we were asleep yesterday, around 3am. My husband’s phone kept ringing, he did not want to pick up but when he saw it was his sister, he had to pick it up thinking it was an emergency.
That was how, I started hearing my husband and his sister argue in their language for almost 30mins. It was clear I was the one they were arguing about. I became afraid, what has happened again, what has the Uncle told them about me? After like 45minutes of arguing on the phone, my husband got off the phone very angry.
My husband started shouting, asking me what happened between me and my uncle while we were in Abuja…I told him nothing cos I was afraid I did not know yet what the Uncle said. Then my husband said, that my Uncle has reported me to the entire family, that I am a slut, a cheap prostitute. That because I wanted money from the Uncle, I tried to get the Uncle to have s3x with me when he called me into his study in Abuja.
With my mouth wide open in shock…I started crying and telling my husband exactly what happened. I told him how his Uncle wanted to sleep with me, how he showed me CCTV of our lovemaking and me bathing and how he squeezed my breasts….I could not believe it…how this man has turned everything around and my husband and his family seems to believe him over me.
Do you know my husband queried me for not telling him when it happened? He said he knows women like his Uncle for money….he has seen many throw themselves at him for money but how will he believe me when I did not tell him what happened, instead I lied by saying he asked me to cook bitter leaf soup…and I refused to have s3x with my husband that night cos I did not want him to suspect what I did….which is try to seduce his Uncle.
By this time, my head was spinning….I told him to ask his Uncle to come and say all he said to my face and I was willing to swear by anything that his Uncle is lying and I am saying the truth. But that did not make any difference….my husband said they are having family meeting about my matter on the 1st of January and that majority of the family members are already calling me gold digger. That my Uncle said he regrets sponsoring our wedding not knowing that I am a gold digger.
My husband is so upset that I did not tell him anything…he said he cannot defend me cos no one witnessed it and he cannot go against his uncle cos the man is their family destiny helper. That even if the Uncle slept with me, that a man with money can do anything and no one will believe. I asked him what if the Uncle slept with me….my husband said that I should have told him immediately cos it does not matter if the man slept with me or not cos I did not say anything then.
So now, the only solution according to my husband is …. My husband wants me to call his Uncle and apologize to him….so that the Uncle can prevail on the family to forget what happened because only the Uncle can stop the family from looking at me as a wayward woman and the entire family will be against me. I asked him what about the fact that I am being humiliated….my husband said, I should have said something then…cos now, it is too late to cry foul after the Uncle has gone to report me.
I cried and cried and asked my husband why he will humiliate me like this in front of his whole family and his response was, life is like that, only the tough survives. He asked me again….that I should swear to him that the uncle did not sleep with me, I said no….he said, for peace to reign, I should just play the fool, apologize to the man and forget about everything. My husband said maybe his Uncle was just playing with me cos he is very touchy with women but he can never have slept with me, his nephew’s wife.
Now, I have been give ultimatum to apologize to the Uncle or face the family on new year day. I cant believe I am saying this but I think I have entered one chance in this family. Our marriage is not even up to one full month and I have been bashed like a nobody. At this rate, I want to inform my family that I cannot continue….I am being blackmailed and made a black sheep for something I did not do. Even my husband is saying he will only forgive me for not telling him if I apologize to that swine….can you imagine?
I am the one that was abused yet I am the one being shamed and called names cos of one rich bigot and pervert. The most painful part is, my husband is not on my side….I now know that the family will do anything to protect their demi god of an Uncle. And use me as sacrificial lamb. I called my mother and brother today and told them everything. My brother is so upset….he said I should not go to any family meeting and if they continue to harass me….I should pack my things and come back home.
My mother is crying….saying enemies are about to disgrace her by making me a divorcee just three and half weeks after marriage. She is begging me to just apologize and stay clear of the Uncle and work on my marriage. That a good wife will work on her marriage and be humble with her in-laws. My mother says, I have to do everything to make peace with my inlaws….even if it means, swallowing my pride by apologizing.
I am so confused, angry and afraid. Please advice me….how do I survive this ordeal…..this past 24 hours have been like a nightmare….should I beg this man or pack my load and leave this house?
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