True Life Story: My Wedding Is Next Month But Someone Is Blackmailing Me
Hi Livey Stones,
I don’t know how I got myself into this big mess and I need your help. I am getting married in December to a very good woman. This woman has changed my life, made me a far better man than I have ever been. I still have alot of flaws and I believe God brought this lady into my life to help me.
When I met Betty (my fiancée) I was dating her roommate. Both of them were in the same town doing NYSC. I used to be a happening guy. I met Betty’s roommate from a party she came all the way from Abeokuta to Lagos for. That girl was a wild one, I became hooked on her like cocaine. Then I was carefree, spending money recklessly one the fast life: girls, s2x, drugs, alcohol, flashy cars and things.
At the time, I was the top marketing executive at a bank, money was not my issue…. I could get any girl I wanted …. even tried out many of my fantasies which was even having s3x with multiple girls. My experience with Betty then was one that I used to admire at how naturally beautiful she was but all the advances I made at her, she rebuked e seriously…. she even told my babe, her roommate then to ask me to back off.
Betty was a born-again sister. Always preaching to me and my babe. Well, fast forward to three years later, so I was no longer with my former babe. But I was still living the fast life even though I was getting calmer. But one day, I received a broadcast message from Betty. I guess she forwarded to all in her contact. She was inviting people for a church program. I started my wahala with her again…toasting her.
This time, instead of getting angry with me, Betty would send me prayer messages, saying I am praying for your soul. She seemed nicer and more less aggressive with her evangelism. So, I thought of catching her by agreeing to come to her church program. I kept promising her I will come for more than six times until one day I showed up in her church on the mainland. She was so surprised to see me. When she hugged me that church hug, Christian sister hug, I knew I wanted her so badly.
To be honest, I decided to change because of her. I wanted to win her by every means possible. I also had some challenges at work, I asked Betty to pray for me and miraculously, I got a miracle, I was not sacked after all. So, I began to take this church thing more and more serious. Unfortunately, what I did not know was that Betty was engaged.
When I found out, was when she invited me for her wedding introduction. I almost passed out. I was so disappointed but pretended to be cool. I was still going to church after that bit not as serious as I was. That was when I backslidded small. Since the girl I wanted was out of the picture, I went back to my old ways. I started partying and shit. I even went back to Kate…that is Betty’s former NYSC roommate. That girl turned out from the blues and we resumed the bad bad things we were doing. Kate knew sha that it was not a relationship, but we were just hooking up.
As life turn out, about a year later, Betty broke off her engagement. The dude apparently was a liar… he travelled abroad and married someone else. Betty was really heart broken. This time around, I think it even affected her faith….she stopped going to church and it took a while for her to heal. She became more friendly to me. When I tried to toast her, she was not so tough anymore.
I began to shoot my shot. She agreed. She wanted to be my girlfriend. My God, I was on top of the world. She is such a sweet soul and she turned my life around. I think we both helped each other cos she became happy again and I got a lovely wife material. I proposed and she accepted. Her church people did not approve, they way I was not a serious Christian but Betty stuck by me.
That is where I fcked up. Betty was standing up for me in front of her church people that I am a good guy but I was messing around her back. I tried to stop and focus on her but the temptation from other girls was much. Especially Kate. I wanted to stop seeing Kate but she promised Betty will not find out ..she just wanted to have fun like me. But when our marriage invitation came out last week, Kate went gangster on me.
This Kate is a streets girl…a criminal…she wants me to pay her 10M or she will show our s2x videos of us having s3x with other girls to Betty. Now, that is mad. When she told me, I wanted to k*ll her for real. She wants to mess up the only good thing I have. Where will I get 10M to pay this ashawo Kate? Even if I have it, why does she think she deserves a whole 10M cos we were both having fun?
Kate knows how much Betty has suffered…she knows Betty will dump me in hearts beat. I am mad confused and don’t know what to do. I threatened her with police, cos its blackmail…she said no problem…as long as Betty sees the tape, she does not give a f*ck. That she will even release the tape for free cos its her property…the tape was done by consent…what rubbish is she saying?
How can she claim its her property when its not only her in the tape? Yes, I was aware she made tapes…me too, I have some videos I made too but it was just for fun…besides, I never really bothered that it might leak until I started dating Batty….everyone knows my past as a bad guy…its only Betty I am trying to impress that I can change but see as I don f*ck up….as in ,…I don mess up.
I need advice on what to do …. confessing to Betty is out of it….she will break up and it will be traumatizing for her…just like her ex broke her heart…I don’t want to be that guy cos she was really broken…I love her too much to be that source of pain to her.
What can I f*cking do….please?
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