True Life Story: My Wife Does Not Love Me-She Gave me Permission To Have A Side Chick
Hello Lively Stones house,
I think ,my wife does not love me. After five years of marriage, I have come to realize that my wife is not in love with me. This is very painful and I want to end this marriage. My wife is a former model. I say former because when I met her, even though she was a model, she was not actively modelling anymore. In her younger years, she was a model for top brands. But as she got older, she went more into acting movies and less modelling.
That was when we met. Yes, she is a very beautiful woman. I give it to her. I was swept by her. I too, I did not dull, I swept her off her feet too. Before we got married, she told me that she did not want more than 2 children. She said because she wants us to give full attention to the children instead of having plenty children we will not be able to give full attention to. The plan made sense to me and I agreed.
When we got married, I noticed my wife is a diet and gym freak. She does not like to add any weight at all…well, as an actress, she needs to look great cos her body is what she uses for acting which is her career. When she got pregnant, she was not happy she was putting on weight. Soon as she had our first daughter, she started fitness to gain her body back. She wanted to look slim and slender quickly.
I praised her for her dedication to looking good…after all, that is why I married her. Before our baby was one year, my wife quickly got pregnant. She said she wanted to have the two children quickly so she can do tummy tuck and close the chapter of child bearing. That was when I began to feel like she was doing too much. She had our second baby, another girl. I was hoping for a boy so I asked her if we can try one more time, maybe we will have a boy.
My wife refused vehemently and said she is not having more than 2 children. That she told me before marriage. That boy or girl are the same children. I agreed with her that all gender children are from God and I am grateful but since we are young, nothing wrong in trying one more, just to see if we can have a boy. She then said, what if we try again, we have another girl, I told her I will accept it as the will of God.
yet, my wife insisted she is not having any more children. I bought her a car, gifts, gave her plenty money …just to persuade her to do this one thing for me. Instead, she took my money to go and do tummy tuck. So she can get her perfect modelling shape back. All of a sudden, she started talking of going back to modelling career again. I was surprised because even though I support her career or any business she wants to do, the modelling is not something I met her doing actively…
Modelling requires a lot of travelling and she has to be in shape all the time. I told her there is no need to go back to modelling…except she wants to be a fashion model that does not require her to be slender like other models. My wife got angry and said I was not supporting her ambitions. I kept quiet. After two years, I brought up the issue of trying for a baby boy and she flipped and said I do not want her to follow her dreams, cos knowing that she has done tummy tuck cos she is done giving birth.
My wife went to report me to her mother who is supporting her as well. My mother in-law said I know she told me she wants only 2 children and I agreed. The mother made it look like I did not appreciate the 2 girls we had and I told her I appreciate the girls but I know there is nothing wrong in desiring a boy child and if she is thinking we will have another girl, we can do IVF to determine the gender of the baby, to make sure its a boy. My wife refused.
This made me very sad. I love my girls but I just want to try to for a boy. Someone told me about having a surrogate to carry the baby if you cannot carry your own baby. When I told my wife, she started crying, saying I am disturbing her, making her have emotional stress with the way I am demanding she had another baby. To me, I feel my wife is selfish. She only wants what is best for her. She does not think about my feelings and that means, she does not love me.
My wife is 27 years old. She is still young…why can’t she try for one more baby if her husband wants one more baby? Its her body I know but lets use surrogate…she said she is not emotionally ready for another child. After seeing all the trouble this argument keeps bringing, I decided to leave her alone. But I feel bad and feel neglected. Our marriage started suffering. We both started ignoring each other.
For almost three months, we did not sleep with each other. One day, I called her and asked her, how she is able to sleep knowing she has not had s3x with her husband for three months. This woman replied saying, s3x is not food. That since I do not want to stop the talk about having another baby, she cannot does not want to keep having emotional stress…that I am the source of her emotional stress.
If you see the way I opened my eyes looking at her in surprise…wondering if this is really the wife I paid her bride price and married? I asked her what she wants me to do in terms of s3x cos I am a man…my wife opened her mouth and said: do what your fellow men are doing….go and get yourself a side chick and stop disturbing my life. Ha….I could not believe my ears.
After that day, I concluded that my wife entered this marriage not because she loved me…maybe she just wanted to be married. Now, she is married and has children…she does not need me anymore. Our s3x life is completely dead. I tried to even play with her ,but she pushes me away. When I insist that if she does not allow me, I will divorce her, she will allow me but she will not let me cum inside her.
Anytime I come inside her, she will be shouting and saying I want to get her pregnant. I told her to use contraceptive….she said it makes her gain weight…so she said either I used condom or we no longer have s3x if I cannot pull out. Its like I am begging my legally wedded wife for s3x. I got exhausted and decided to take matters into my own hands by getting a side chick….I thought my wife would even feel remorse when she sees the side chick….my wife did not even care.
In fact, if I touch my wife…she will tell me to stop disturbing her…that my side chick is not doing her job well. One day, I brought the side chick home, to make my wife feel the height of jealousy. My wife just packed her things to the guest room and continued like nothing is wrong. The Side chick was the one who opened my eyes….this chick told me….that my wife does not love me if she does not care if I bring another woman into my house to f*ck.
So, now, its clear to me….maybe she has a guy that she is seeing…I love my wife but she does not love me. I cannot force any woman to love me…just because I said I want a boy child or one more child…that is why my loving wife turned her back against me? even now, I am not talking about the third child again but she does not want to have s3x with me without condom because she says I am trying to get her pregnant.
Me, I do not know what to do anymore….I have come to the lively stones house to advise me. My family have said I should divorce her. I for one, I am against divorce cos I know its bad but what other choice do I have? Can any married man be in my shoes and still be in such a marriage?
Anytime I bring up divorce, my wife will say I start shouting, that I am a wicked man, that I deceived her, she told me she wanted only 2 children, now I am forcing her to have another child….she has told anyone who cares to hear and being a woman, people tend to take sides more with her….can you imagine some people sided with her that I should use condom?
Why will a married man be using condom for his wife? Is she a prostitute? Should I not be allowed to have s3x the way I want in my marriage? What has this world turned into? If shes really wanting to prevent pregnancy, there are many options for contraceptive to prevent pregnancy but she will be shouting its making her fat or not good for her health…bla bla bla.
If my wife does not care about my feelings and is not sleeping with me….what else will bring me joy in this prison called marriage?
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