True Life Story: My Wife Is Too Desperate-I Think She Is Cheating On Me To Keep Her Job-Pt 2
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My wife began to struggle with me, to get the phone back. I quickly opened the text and saw that her boss had sent her gbloa emojis with a message...’you always make me want you more when you leave” . My mouth fell open…like what is the meaning of this text?. I also noticed that my wife had deleted every message from the boss before now. I asked her what is going on and she said nothing. That its just a sick prank from her boss. That its just harmless flirting. I told her I do not believe her and so I will call the boss immediately to explain the message. My wife started dragging her phone with me and saying not to call the boss cos she will loose her job.
At this point, I dont care if she loose her job. Infact, I want her to resign immediately. My wife finally got the phone and refused to let me call her boss. She said the man is crazy and has been hitting on her but she has been managing him so she can keep her job. I asked if she f#cked him and she said over her dead body will she do that. So, why is the man bold enough to send such a text? A text that implies that he has already had s3x with you or he wants to have s3x with you.
My wife is swearing by the bible that she has not done anything with her boss. But I am no longer comfortable with this job. I told her to resign but she says until she gets a better job, she cant resign. All she wants is for us to focus on saving money for our jakpa. I am no longer interested in the jakpa if she has to work at a place where she spends all day and night and weekends working for a man who send her dirty text messages. My wife said I should ignore the man and focus on our goal.
I do not know how to focus on that goal when I am worried that man is either already f#cking my wife or is planning to f#ck her. Please I need advise. My wife says if I do anything to make her loose her job, she will not forgive me. What kind of statement is that? Yes, her job is our main source of income but what about my pride and ego? And why did she delete his previous texts? She said because she never wants to see them, that she deletes it as soon as it delivers.
I am loosing my mind. I don’t know what to do. My wife has said I should trust her. How can I trust her? She does not have s3x with me anymore except maybe once in a month which she does like a sacrifice to appease me. She spends more days and nights and weekends working for this pervert. I do not know how to keep calm anymore. I have told my wife if she does not quit the job, I do not want to go abroad with her anymore. She said I am being over dramatic. That I know she can never cheat on me, after all, she married me as a virgin.
Yes, I used to think she can never cheat on me but what if she is truly cheating? Why cant she resign? I know my wife is obsessed with traveling abroad like her friends...so maybe she will jakpa no matter the cost. If she resign now, we will manage until she gets another job but she refused. Saying a bird in hand is better. When my wife goes to work, all I imagine is her boss pounding her…why else is she so tired and not interested in s3x with me? I used to think it was the workload but now, wild thoughts are running through my mind.
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I need advise. Should I trust my wife or do you agree with me that this is crazy? Do you think my wife is telling the truth? Do you think I am over reacting? What should I do?
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This message here “her gbloa emojis with a message…’you always make me want you more when you leave” already tells you what is happening but you are still intentionally asking funny questions.
I can’t tell someone that if something hasn’t been going on. One of the first things with cheating is deleting messages. More than deleting messages, who sends gbola emoji and later tells someone’s elses wife that she make him wants more she she leaves. Wo, keep living in denial jare.
Boss man,
Your wife is already cheating and she’s enjoying it or has a motive for engaging in the act .
If she isn’t hiding anything, ask her to allow you pick his call anytime he calls at unofficial hours.
Working late nights and weekends should not be all the time at a workplace except either parties ( Boss or employees) are secretly deriving some pleasure like companionship or love affairs .
I would not advise you force her to resign because of your present situation.
However, if you can handle matters maturely without escalating it,
1) Visit your wife’s workplace like going to drop lunch for her – a message will be passed without saying a word especially if the boss meets with you.
2) Offer to pick her up from work place – you would deduce if other female staff also work late in the office or it’s just your wife and boss.
3) You could acquaint yourself with another male colleague of hers – even if nobody spills anything to you, you would suspect a true or false.
Dear poster, without mincing words ,your wife is smarter than you , she’s a street babe and knows how to play her games well … Your wife is cheating on you and cannot be trusted,your wife have been telling you lies and you’ve been swallowing them like ogbono soup with semo….
Sorry to say this, your wife no send you and the marriage,she doesn’t give a damn,she doesn’t care about you,don’t be surprised she would leave you and jakpa,just be sure she hasn’t gotten the necessary documents to jakpa…..
You lost your job,what are you doing to get back on track? What effort are you making to get back to work as quick as possible? Your wife is using the fact that she’s the one doing the feeding and some things in the house to sleep with her boss
She has not been making love to you, therefore starving you and satisfying her yeye boss…
You better have a plan B because your wife is no longer interested in that marriage,her boss is an Odogwu silencer, he’s the agba baller that’s giving her money,the kind of money that will help her to jakpa as soon as possible……
You married her as a virgin,so! Does being a virgin guarantee long lasting marriage or good character,huh? It’s well oooo, marriage of three years, she’s not even thinking of procreation.
Marriage is not for the faint hearted neither is it for the weak
Hello sir
Yes the matter is exposed….here is my suggestion on the matter. Please its a young marriage and this will happen either to you or her along the journey….God gave you go back to God in prayers…..sir sit with your wife and discuss the situation and ask should you both quit the marriage…..sir communicate the facts to your wife…………assuming it is true will you allow the marriage be dissolved……sir pray coomunicate and pray and allow God lead you….as bad as it is dont give up
Your wife is fucking her boss and you’re asking for advise lol. Keep asking for advise while she is enjoying herself.
Dear poster, your wife and her boss are really fucking themselves.. Marrying her as a virgin doesn’t mean anything oo.. U better wise up.. The game is all about mancity vs arsenal..
So if your wife is sleeping with her boss to keep her job which takes care of you both, what are you going to do about it?
Divorce her or work things out with her?
I think that working things out with her should be your next option, by that I mean, going to pay unannounced visits at her work place maybe bring her lunch, watch out if other female staff are working late too, make friends with some male staff then communicate and go for counseling because I believe you’re about to see what you already fear.
Work hard on your marriage, don’t give up on your spouse. It’s never good enough to just quit.
This is a challenge and you can work with a good and trusted marriage counselor to fix what’s broken.
Peace& Love.