True Life Story: Pregnancy Changed Everything My Wife Can No Longer Satisfy Me
Hello Lively Stones,
I need your help and advice. Hide my details. I am married to a good woman. Its not like she was a virgin when we got married but we both used to enjoy s3x during our courtship and after wedding. My wife matches my s3xual energy, I am one of the lucky ones. There is never a time I want s3x that she turn me down. In fact, our s3x life was very sweet. We do it every day and anytime. She is fun and spontaneous and I loved her for it.
However, something happened when she got pregnant. Due to her pregnancy, she would urinate very frequently as most pregnant woman do. That made her have a smell around her vagina which repulsed me. I had to tell her that anytime she goes to urinate, she has to wash with soap before I made love to her. Which she tries to do but I still noticed a faint smell around her even when we are not making love.
My wife explained that, sometimes, a small wee can come out of her uncontrollable…this made her clothes smell. I guess I have a super sensitive nose. I could not stand it…it turned me down…I started refusing to make love…this did not go down well with my wife cos even though she was pregnant…she was also very active s3xually. I noticed that even when she washed up…maybe its my thinking…I don’t last as long as before…maybe I am thinking the p*ssy is not as clean even though she cleaned it. I find myself coming under few minutes.
This made our lovemaking quite uninteresting…I practically avoided s3x , most times until my wife gave birth. I was looking forward to her giving birth ,..especially after six weeks so we can resume our active s3x life cos I have missed f*cking my wife the way it was before the pregnancy. I was totally disappointed when we tried to make love after the six weeks after giving birth.
As we tried to make love…I discovered that due to the size of our child when my wife gave birth…her vagina has become loose even after some stitches were done to close up her vagina. But the thing is no longer as tight as before. Infact…its like a big sea and I cannot feel myself anytime I try to penetrate her. This is so frustrating to both of us. When I told her what the issue was, she became emotional…saying I am ungrateful…after she gave me a son, I expect her vagina to remain the same.
Well, I did not expect it to be the same but neither did I expect it to be so large now. This is just our first child….what will happen when we have finished having all our kids….I have sought some medical research online and I found no answer to her problem. Its like surgery is the only way and my wife is saying she does not want surgery. I also chatted someone online who is a s3x therapist…they recommended other forms of s3x like anal s3x or use of toys to boost our s3x life but my wife is refusing anal s3x. I dont like anal s3x either. The toy they recommended is not the same as the real vagina. I don’t derive the same kind of pleasure from it.
Now,S3x has become uninteresting to me. I fear we may be loosing our marriage if we don’t fix this issue. Even my wife is upset with me, she has totally abandoned me to care for the child. So, when I ask her why she does not want to do something about the expanded vagina, she will tell me to take it like that or leave her alone. I feel she has lost her s3xual drive too.
Even if she does not want to do vagina tightening surgery, why is she not trying to find other natural ways of tightening vagina? Instead, she said I should go and take pills for penis enlargement if I say she is too wide…maybe its because I have grown too small. Can you imagine… is that fair…am I not only trying to find solution…why will she insult my manhood because of that? I read that alum or lime can work on vagina tightening. but I don’t know how true that is. Has anyone tried it? Please advice, maybe my wife can read it here and try it..
Its been months without s3x…I am a man and now the temptation to go out and have s3x is becoming too high. I love my wife but if she cannot satisfy me s3xually…I fear, our marriage is doomed…my wife thinks I am just looking for excuse to cheat but its not true. What do I do…what can we do please…my wife is not interested in finding any solution. Does she know how women are flirting with me to sleep with them? My wife is being string headed..no one should blame me if I go outside o.
I need advice. The marriage is just 2 years old…I have tried to be patient and understanding but my wife is not the first to give birth vaginally…I read that the vagina is elastic and supposed to go back to the normal state before pregnancy…why is her own not going back? If I had known, maybe she should have done CS instead of vagina birth. I cannot continue to live like this.
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