True Life Story: See How My Driver Seduced Me Into An Affair
Hi Lively Stones,
Please I need your advice. I have been very disturbed about this matter because I do not know how to open up to anyone, that my son was not fathered by my husband. You see, when I got married to my husband 5 years ago, a few days to our wedding, he called me and told me that he wants to tell me something that will make me either cancel the wedding or give up something dear to life.
When I asked him what, he said, he cannot father a child, that he is impotent. That he is sorry for not telling me throughout our dating cos he was still visiting different specialists with a hope for cure. And he had faith that God will make him father a child miraculously. I was shocked and I cried my eyes out. I did not speak to him for 2 days.
That time, he thought I was going to break up with him but I realized my husband is a very nice man and even if he cannot give me children, he will be a good husband and love me. So, I agreed and told him that we can get married and either adopt or we use a sperm donor. So, we got married and all was great. My husband has given me all any woman can give except a child.
We adopted a child on our second wedding anniversary. A beautiful baby girl. I actually pretended to be pregnant, wore a fake baby bump until I was given news that the baby we are to adopt was born. So, till today, everyone thinks shes our biological daughter. And then, temptation came. Two years ago, I started wanting another baby cos our daughter was 1 year old now.
So, I started looking for how to adopt again. I had a new driver, a young man who was going with me to the adoption appointments. One day, my driver asked me why I wanted to adopt, he did not understand why I was looking to adopt when I can give birth by myself. I thought I could trust him cos we have been discussing some sensitive things around him, I told him I that I can give birth, but my husband has low sperm count.
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That was a very big mistake….but I thought I could trust him. This guy then suggested that I get a sperm donor and get pregnant instead of adopting a total stranger….at least, the child will be a part of me. I told him we had considered that but we were had not really thought about that. He immediately offered to be our sperm donor.
I knew my husband would not agree so I told him no. The driver continued to persuade me and convinced me to tell my husband that I got the sperm from a sperm bank so he will not feel Awkard. This driver made it look like, we would both be helping each other…he would give me his sperm and I would pay him 500k. That would be cheaper than adoption for sure and the child will have my DNA.
So, I lied to my husband that we were getting a sperm donor from sperm bank. I convinced him that I wanted the child to have part of my DNA. The driver and I started having S** ….to me, it was cheaper…..cheaper than going to hospital to insert the sperm into me. The cost of IVF and adoption is high…very high…most people will never tell you but its very expensive to have a child through IVF or adoption…so just having S** with my driver seemed like the cheaper option.
Do you know….I got pregnant after just a month with my driver? My husband was elated. I was beyond happy. I paid my driver 500k. He signed an undertaking not to reveal that he had S** with me. But you see temptation…once you have S** with someone else….and you continue to see the person….its very hard not to want that person again.
That was my weakness….me and the driver continued having S** even until I was due to have my baby. At a point, both of us started professing love for each other. And then, I had a baby boy. My husband and my family are so happy. I now want to end things with my driver, but he does not want to. He said he is in love with me and wants to continue our relationship. I have told him that we cannot continue but he is saying, if I do not agree…he will tell my husband about us.
This is what I have been scared of at the back of my mind….I have dreaded such a day when he says he will expose me. So, I reminded him he wrote an undertaking, and he says that does not count cos he can deny he wrote that. That if I like, I can take him to court or anywhere, but he will say I forced him to write it since there were no witnesses.
Now, I am seriously disturbed. I have offered him money to leave…he said no. That he wants me to leave my husband and marry him. I have begged and begged him and he says no. So many times I have thought about poisoning him but I do not think I can murder someone. My options now: is to either tell my husband and of course…he may call for a divorce or he may forgive me. I am not sure which one he will do cos I really f*cked up.
Please advise me…. should I show the undertaking to a lawyer? Can I use that to restrain this man from making any claim on me or my baby? I want to know if there is a chance that I can force him back with any threat of lawsuit with that undertaking. Maybe then, my husband may forgive me if the driver can be forced to keep his mouth shut.
Since that time, I have had to yield to him, just to keep him quiet. Its been hard sleeping with two men…I swear….its like I sold my soul to the devil. When my driver f*cks…he does it with so much force that I find it hard to have S** with my own husband….Its like I am being punished….now, my boy is getting bigger and looks alot like my driver. I have to find a way to get rid of my driver. I am afraid of what will happen when my husband finds out before I can explain things.
Or should I just tell my husband and await any fate that awaits me? I really love my husband and do not want to loose him. I know my husband will be so disappointed in me, for going outside to tell his secret to someone else…making it look like he’s not a man….I am so sorry I allowed S.e.xual temptation to take over me. Please advise me.
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Reading u story make me believe that some men cannot be trusted and the only solution is to expose urself to ur husband cos if not, the driver will continue to take advantage of the secret to exploit u and the question how long can u continue with this ?
I really feel for u and I believe if u tell ur husband u might just be surprised that he might forgive u quickly than u think and expect but if not aleast u have already a clear and clean conscience.
I will like to ask u a question and this is ” y do u want to stop this affair? is it cos u are scared of being exposed or u now realize that u hv done wrong and u want to sincerely repent” . If the former is ur reason then find a way u won’t be exposed and continue with the affair but if the latter is ur reason then go to God in prayer and ask for his forgiveness then seek the advice of a godly counsellor in prayerfully reaching out to husband to forgive u.
I hope and pray that God gives u the grace to do the right thing so u can hv a clean and clear conscience.
Many thanks for reaching out to us.
Dear poster, i would advice you come out clean with your hubby, the truth is u really messed up, just know that u broke a good man, I can’t imagine how your hubby will feel, knowing that u betrayed him..,,he told you his worst secret few days before the wedding, cos he doesn’t want to build his home on deceit and u exposed him to the driver which in turn took advantage of your situation, it’s really painful you hurt your hubby this way,…the only way to free yourself of the driver is to come out clean, never u think of keeping this a secret no matter the outcome, speak to people your husband respects and listens to, be ready for whatever outcome, I pray your husband finds a place in his heart to forgive u…it is well…
Tell your hubby the truth, and clear your mind, so prevent your driver from looting you, and you better be fast so as the truth comes out from you o if not the disaster might be worst.
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