True Life Story: See What My Sister’s Fiancé Did That May Destroy Our Lives
Hello Lively Stones,
My situation is critical, I need urgent advise. I don’t have time for too much talk, I need help before my entire family is thrown into confusion. My elder sister Tinu was sick in January. She is asthmatic and she was having a serious crises and it happened in her fiancé’s house. They had rushed her to the hospital and she was ok but seriously finding it hard to do her normal routine. She was placed on some sedatives that made her sleep alot.
My parents were worried and asked me to go and check on her. I was with her all through the evening that day that I got to her place, she was really in a bad state but I have been managing my sister since she was diagnosed at 3 years old. At age 9 years…. I knew she was sick and always looked after her from young age. So after I helped put her to bed and went to sleep in the guest room, I was totally tired.
Only for me to be woken up by someone struggling to pin me down on my bed….I realized what was going on…..Tinu’s fiancé was on top of me. He was slapping me. I started fighting and kicking but next thing …he placed an object on my nose and I was knocked out. I woke up like a few hours later by my own sister who was calling for me. I ran to her to help but I instantly saw I was naked…..I tried to cover myself and saw semen around my thighs.
Long story short is…..Tinu’s fiancé r*aped me. The shock ….I could not speak. I was shaking but I had to keep my cool cos my sister was not feeling fine. Like a few hours later, the fiancé came to apologize….saying he does not know what came over him. Begged me to keep this a secret from my sister. My sister Tinu loves this guy to death….she even moved into his house against my parents wish. They are not married but he has done introduction.
I am totally devastated that I agreed to keep the secret cos of my sister. But God did not want me to forget….I just found out that I am pregnant. Pregnant…yes…even though I took morning after pill and paracetamol when that incident happened…..yet….I am pregnant….Jesus….I have not had a boyfriend since last year so I am not S**ually active. I am confused and don’t know what to do. I have never done abortion before and the thought of it scares me. Usually when I have such a terrifying problem, I go to my sister Tinu…but right now…I can’t go to her. I did not tell anyone when it happened….I wish I did…maybe this wont have happened.
I am even afraid to tell the fiancé who is responsible. This is like a nightmare and I do not know what to do…..I have read that there are abortion drugs….where do I get that from…pharmacy or hospital ? I am scared too that what if something wrong happens with the abortion. Me and Tinu’s fiancé have never spoken to each other since that day. I left their house after the third day that my sister was getting better.
I don’t know what scares me most: whether its the fact that I am pregnant for my sister’s husband to be or that my sister is getting married to a r*pist? If my sister that is so fragile from her condition finds out…how will she manage? I regret the day I went to that house….the imbecile had the guts to even tell me later that he thought I was giving him signs…and seeing me in his house that night, he lost his senses.
To God who made me…I never ever saw this man like this….I never had any reason to think he could do such a thing….he has been with my sister for three years….my parents have accepted him as their son even though they know he drinks alot….but no one would ever think he could have done such a thing to me….Ha….please advise me. My life is over…..Abortion….me? I am only 23 years old….I also cannot bear the thought of having this man’s child…it will destroy me and my sister.
Sometimes….I feel like to end it is my best option….
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