True Story: Things Are Getting Out Of Control From A Secret Affair
Hi Lively Stones,
I am in a dilemma. I love my fiancé so much but I have betrayed him and he has no idea. The guilt of what I have done is killing me. My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. In 2020, he lost his job and things have been really tough for him. We had planned to get married in December 2021 but his financial challenges was what made us move it to Easter in 2022.
Last year, I got a placement to do my youth service as a Front Desk Officer in a construction company. Two months later, during my birthday, my birthday was celebrated in the office when the HR bought cake and everyone celebrated me. That made my MD to notice me. He later called my extension line and asked me to see him. When I got to his office, he handed me an envelope that contained dollars. He said it was for my birthday.
I knelt down to beg him and he said he wants to make sure I get what I deserve if I play my card well. I was still wondering but he make it clear. He said he noticed I am a very intelligent girl and he wants to reward me but there is no vacancy in the company, but if I work as his special assistant, he can add some allowances to me and later retain me in the company after my NYSC.
This was my dream, to get a job after service because everyone knows how hard it is to get a job after service in this country. I quickly agreed and he said, anytime he has something for me to do, he will call me. I said ok. Excitedly, I called my fiancé and told him. He was happy cos he also thought I was getting noticed and rewarded for my contribution.
The next day, around 4.30, the MD called me and asked me to wait after work, that he has some work for me to do. He said he would make sure his driver drops me after incase its difficult for me to get transport. Around 5.45pm, the MD called me again to come to his office. He said I should not come with my phone.
On getting to the MD’s office, he locked the door and asked me to sit close to him. He then began to touch my breasts, I began to withdraw but he told me to relax. That he just wants me to help him in some personal areas and he will give me all the money I need.
I told him I was not interested if what the special assistant job is for me to be messing with him. He then said, well, if you refuse, you may not have get retained after your service anymore. I got scared and started begging him cos I needed the job. He then brought out his p*nis asking me to suck it. I did not know why I was so scared but I did it. He then went ahead to have s3x with me in his office.
The amount of money he gave me after was $300. That is how, I started having s3x with the MD. The s3x was in his office, his car, sometimes in the hotel. I began to long for him cos he was f*cking better than my fiancé. I lost my senses in the process.
I got very confused. I think I stared developing feelings for the MD. He is a young man in his 40s. He is very handsome and its getting hard to even resist his charm. He is married but his family are abroad. I know he cannot marry me but I also do not want to be a side chick.
Two months later, he didn’t even wait for me to finish my service year, he gave me full employment. He placed me on a monthly salary of N400k. I felt very bad sleeping with my MD but the job offer was too tempting. I was even sending money (100k) to my mom every month from what he gave me.
My fiancé even called him to say thank you. My plan was to work there for like a year, save enough money and leave but I got pregnant in November last year and the bad part was I was not sure who was responsible for the pregnancy cos I am also active with my fiancé. To avoid confusion, I told the MD and he organized for me to have an abortion.
The abortion made me very sick and I was afraid for my life. I knew I could possibly get pregnant again if I continued f*cking the MD and I cannot have another abortion. So, I told my fiancé that I wanted to resign at the end of January 2022 but he didn’t understand. He said no, that I cannot resign because he just got a job that pays only 120k and he is hoping with my job and salary, we can save enough to get a 2 bedroom apartment and get married in Easter this year.
We tried to explain that I am not happy with the job cos its demanding but my fiancé just dismissed me saying, I should stop being a baby. That work is hard everywhere. Now, since December, I have not seen my period. I am very scared I might be pregnant. Initially, I thought it was because of the abortion I had in November. So, I did not see my period in December and January has ended.
So, I took a pregnancy test two days ago, thank God it was negative but the fear and guilt that is consuming me right then, I think its better I resign without listening to my fiancé. I want to put in my resignation on Monday and tell my fiancé after I had done it. He sure will be very mad but I don’t see any other option. At least, I have saved up to 2M naira from this job. We can start with that.
The only other option is tell him that the MD is harassing me s3xually but I am afraid that he may find out that I actually got pregnant for the MD and aborted it. I am worried that he may not believe me the MD gave me no choice….because the affair has been going on for almost 6 months. I suspect people are beginning to talk about me and the MD. I do not want to be embarrassed in the long run.
I need your advice on what to do.
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