A Nigerian writer identified as Kelvin Odanz, has taken to the platform to explain in detail why men do not like receiving gifts from women they are in relationships with. Odanz started out by talking about how a lot of men help their women financially and end up getting dumped but they don’t go about crying and harassing these women.
However, the same cannot be said for women who help their men financially and it doesn’t lead to marriage.
He wrote: “Dozens of Igbo men have sponsored the life and education of women they want to marry till graduation. Most of them get dumped at the end of their sacrifice.They drink it down with beer, wail to their friends and move on. You don’t see them crying for help and harassing their Ex
He continued: “Some men even rented houses for their Exes, fund their lives and the lives of all their family members. Sometimes in expectation for nothing. When things don’t work out, they pack up and leave in dignity. No drama, no emotional blackmail, no victimhood Olympics.
But it is the SUPERIOR GENDER that will go beserk if they spend 10 Naira on you and it later doesn’t end up in marriage. They’d tell the story to the whole world, they’d haunt you, they will curse, they will harass. If there is a way to destroy you, they’d jump at it.”
Odanz explained that these are the main reasons men don’t like accepting gifts from women when in romantic relationships with women. He advised that women who are fond of giving out gifts to their boyfriends hoping for marriage, should put it in a written agreement.
He wrote: “Right there is a reason why men don’t exactly like taking gifts from women. They’d prefer to be the ones giving. Because things can go south and they’d go about talking about how “I MADE HIM, I FED HIM, I CLOTHED HIM, I GAVE HIM AIR.
If you know you are giving your lover any gifts or money in expectation for something, please put it into a written agreement so we know you are mad. Coming back to haunt the person after things go South is out-rightly wrong and evil. Women indeed need to do better with that.”
If you know you are giving your lover any gifts or money in expectation for something, please put it into a written agreement so we know you are mad.
Coming back to haunt the person after things go South is outrightly wrong and evil. Women indeed need to do better with that
— Kelvin Odanz (@MrOdanz) May 8, 2020
Dozens of Igbo men have sponsored the life and education of women they want to marry till graduation.
Most of them get dumped at the end of their sacrifice.They drink it down with beer, wail to their friends and move on
You don't see them crying for help and harassing their Ex
— Kelvin Odanz (@MrOdanz) May 8, 2020
He isn’t far from the truth.