My Friend’s Fiancée Is A Prophetess- Did Her Visions Reveal His Cheating?
Good day,
This is asking for advise for my friend, a young man that i am living with in same flat. I over head him one early morning arguing with his fiancée over the phone. When I asked him he said that his fiancé got a revelation from a prophet in Kenya (not real location) via face that he is cheating on her. This made the lady to end the relationship.
This young man pleaded with me to speak with the lady. I called the lady last night and she was just boiling like hot water to the extent i felt like making eba. She started with , she flew from the UK (not real location) , across the ocean to Nigeria to see his man just to to discover that he was cheating on him.
When she discovered , she prayed and God asked her to forgive him which she did. Then , she sponsored their trip to South Africa (Not real location). According to her , She brought this young man to SA just for him to have a good life while they plan for him to come over UK for the m to marry .
She complained of how she has given so much into the relationship and the guy keeps cheating on her. They were in SA before the lock down and after two months , she has to return back to Uk while the young stayed back . She was the one paying for his rent , feeding , etc ( Thats what i am trying to avoid in this life) .
She said so much in anger . She was like while she asked a prophet to pray with her for the young man to be able to move to UK , it was at that time the prophet revealed to her that the guy she is helping is deceiving her . I tried to make her understand that for at least two months I have met this guy , I have not seen him with any woman ,let alone cheating , which is true but she didn’t accept it rather she said he is doing it secretly.
She sees in a vision every time this guy cheats on her. As I am talking to you now , this guy is stranded because his rent will be expiring soon and with the situation of things , the lady may not be able to send him rent for this month.
The girl told me she herself is a prophetess. Since I met this young man , its only prayer and fasting , I have known him for ohhh. In fact, as I am typing this , he has been on fast since seven days now.
(This guy is thinking of telling the girl that he did not cheat but he chatted with a girl…maybe that will make her calm and believe him).
It is because of something like this , that I detest leaning 100% on a lady that is not my mother or Sister. Its better I spend on lady and we don’t get along later than a lady spending 100% on me. This is not to say , I support the guy infidelity ohhh though personally , I have not seen the guy cheat. Even both of them know password to their Facebook account.
What should this guy do now ?
Anonymous Friend
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Let him stop cheating and get a job there rather
than depending totally on a woman .He has to help himself in any little way ooooo to avoid disappointment.
He should find something doing and sustain himself, maybe then he will stop begging a lousy and insecure woman to take him back or trying to revive an already dead relationship.
She should not be quick to assume things and believe that they are the reality.
Unless she has caught him in the act before.
Also, I don’t think it’s cool for a woman to do everything for a man..
I support partners to help each other grow in anyway they can but the idea of a man or woman, taking full responsibility for an adult (especially when the person is not handicapped) doesn’t go well with me.
If you can do that, without complaining of being used in case things go south and the relationship doesn’t work, then it’s fine.
Finally, if there’s no trust then the relationship can not work.
It’s best they have a long talk to settle things amicably and look for a way forward together.
He should leave her for sometime until she’s calm. Then talk to her later.
He should also find a means to raise the rent, if he can get someone to borrow from or something.
Not judging but why would a man not even a boy depend on a woman ?….case for another time, my advice for your neighbor is he should get something doing and stop cheating on his lady.
If she forgives you fine but if she doesn’t, Las Las, you will be alright….I repeat, please find meaningful something to do.
He should not fall for this trick and he should be self reliable to save himself from all this crap.
Yerekukuru mpo nie na y3b3 soa!!!!
The man should look for something doing to fend for himself
Tell your neighbour to get a life. If he cannot sustain himself, why is he looking for a woman? Let him work hard and get something working for him first. The woman will be later.
Tell your neighbor to get a life and job first before looking for a woman.
Issa shameful something o
Does he know how the lady make the money she spends on him?
He shd be ashamed of himself.tueh
Please tell your friend to man up…get a job and stop depending on a woman to feed or take care of his bills.
Secondly…since she and her prophet has visions…he should check himself…make sure he is not truly cheating…if he is…then he best come clean and ask for forgiveness.
But if he is not cheating…he should get his own prophet to reply the other prophet and his girlfriend…to tell them another prophesy….that his girl is paranoid…and she will loose a good man if she does not take care.
I hate what I dont like…everyone can prophesy….you just have to check every prophesy ….and if they are just a scam…treat them as such.
Nice day to him…let him work please….